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Transgender but in love What should I do?
I have fallen in love with this girl but I am also wanting to get SRS. I have not started on anything yet and if I can not get medical to cover anything then I wont be able to get SRS or even HRT. I cant have both, but I know she loves me the same way. She is with a jerk right now and that may soon change. (I really hope it does) He mentally abuses her and controls her so much and it hurts so much to hear about it!!! Even more so when she cries!! I just dont know what to do. :/ Should I give up on the SRS or should I give up my love? Please any advice that you can give will be greatly appreciated!!
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- reme_1Lv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
Be her friend and support her. Try to help her get away from the a hole.
BUT
Concentrate on your own situation. It is really important that you take care of yourself.
You certainly can not be in a relationship with her if you're going to transition. THat would freak her out. And then wher will you be. Just be her friend and reach out to the trans support groups and see if you can't get help with hrt first. This is YOUR LIFE we are talking about.
If you know her folks, talk to them and let them know how bad this guy is.
You have to be happy with yourself before you can share any of yourself with another person. Hope all goes well. HUGS
