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My ex girlfriend wants to be friends?

We broke up about a month ago, we were together for about a year, we had a special thing. she broke up with me because she said she didnt have time for a bf. i was really upset about it. but then a couple days ago she texted me telling me that shes been really upset to and was even crying over me, so she asked that if i could be her friend because she needs me in her life. Without thinking i agreed to be her friend, but im starting to rethink that. Because i still have a lot of feelings for her, i still love her. and idk if i can be friends with her. i texted her the next day and she didnt seem like she really wanted to talk and she just stopped replying after a little while, what do i do? what should i tell her? i really need help.

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  • 9 years ago
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    Friends?? lol she doesn't want to be your friend... she wants to start the relationship again. If you love her, access to see what happen. If not, do not waste your time.

    1year? you guys will never be friends (think about when one of the two star dating someone)

  • 5 years ago

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  • 9 years ago

    You two were together for a year and have only been broken up for a month,at this point it isn't exactly possible/healthy for you to be 'just friends'. If what she's looking for is to work things out and try the relationship again,then maybe that would have been a good approach. But if what she really wants is for the relationship to end,then she needs to give you time and space to accept everything. This was a decision she made and was prepared for,not you. You still have to deal with it in your own way,and remaining close with a person you want to be with but who doesn't wanna be with you...isn't exactly the most ideal way to do it. Then again who knows,maybe she's having the same feelings. The BEST thing to do is talk to her. Just talk to her. And not over the phone,not texting or on the computer..try good old fashioned face to face to convo. Explain your feelings and who knows,maybe in the meantime you could unearth any further issues and deal with them right there.

    Hope it all works out for you! :)

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

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    *This is my opinion* This girl does not care about you in the least! She broke up with you because she wanted to explore her life? No, she broke up with you cause she wanted to be with other guys. Red Flag number 1 would be her taking special interest in your male friends. Red Flag number 2 would have been her calling and texting your friends late at night. There is nothing wrong with your girl being friends with your friends. But I feel she took it a too far. Now she is hanging out with your friends either because she doesn't have her own or yours are better than her's. You don't have to see this girl anymore. She broke up with you she doesn't get the privilege of hanging out with you or getting mad because you won't. In most cases she should have lost the privilege to your friends as well. But they are their own people and have to make their own decisions. So my advice to you is to not see her anymore. Change your number, so she cannot contact you. Tell your friends that you don't want to see her and would appreciate it if you hang out with them when she isn't going to be there. If they are any kind of friends they will respect that. If not then you might want to reconsider who you are friends with. I know this is hard but you won't get over her when you have to see her all the time. There are Women not Girls out there that will treat you right, so get back in the game and find yourself someone real and respectable!

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    6 years ago

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  • 9 years ago

    It seems like she wants you there without any commitment. For me, that is really so unfair. I know that it would really hurt you a lot.

    I personally would not want to be friends with my ex. But what do you really want? I guess, you can try to be her friend. But if it hurts you a lot, you can be honest with her.

  • Sam R
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    I'm kinda in the same boat. My boyfriend (i'm bi) just broke up with me because he felt that we would be better off just being best friends and I'm like "..."

    I still have strong feelings for him so I don't know how we would be "just friends"

    If I were you I would try it out, and if you can't seem to be "just friends" break it off or see if she'll take you back.

  • 9 years ago

    I think everything will work out on its own. Try and be friends with her, you already know you both still have feelings for each other so it might turn out to be a 'friends with benefits' type of situation until she "finds time" to commit to a relationship.

    Source(s): Everything happens for a reason. Just gotta stay positive.
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