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anonymous asked in HealthWomen's Health · 9 years ago

is it wrong to guide him?

he put his hand down my pants but didn't know what he was doing. i didn't get anything out of it except pain. can i guide him to show or would it turn him off?

Update:

if i do want to show him, do i just put my hand over his and tell him as i show him or do i just do it myself?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    yeah, if its pain, you need to show him. if you dont, he will end up going through the rest of his life not knowing how to please a woman. it shouldn't turn him off, he is a guy after all.

  • 9 years ago

    Speaking from a guy's point of view, i would love it if a girl gave me some instruction. It takes out alot of guess work, which can be really nerve-wracking. So by all means, go for it!

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    No its perfectly fine because in the guy's mind he probably doesn't know it's hurting you. Just let him know that you don't like when he does that

  • ?
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    It's perfectly okay to show him what to do! How else is he going to know?

    Men aren't born knowing how to please a woman.

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