help with my boyfriend plese?

you just gotta do it

If you're ready to introduce him to your family for the mere fact that you're in a relationship then I say go right ahead and talk to your mom about it. Are you worried that you're mom won't approve because you're boyfriend isn't attractive or doesn't meet her standards of attractiveness?

You mentioned many times that your boyfriend's physically appearance isn't at its best. If you're not truly bothered by it then why are you still insecure about it? Could it be that youre not satisfied with it but because you compromised for other good attributes and you're worried your family wont' be able to do the same?

If the person you're with truly makes you happy and he's not holding you back in life then I say try to make things work even if your family may not approve for whatever reason.

Here's the thing. If you really like this guy, regardless of how you think your mom is going to react, you've gotta stay true to yourself and to your boyfriend. If you truly feel like he is the one for you, then go for it. Introduce him to your mom, let her get to know him and in time I hope that she accepts him, and your relationship together. Keep yourself where you are happy....oh and btw looks aren't everything. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder :)

Make him look nice and dress him up, and tell him exactly this: "DONT do ANYTHING STUPID. I dont want my mother to judge you"

If hes a slob visiting other peoples' houses, go out to dinner. If hes a messy eater, do something hes not a slob in.

You just gotta do it.