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How do I stop hoping things will change?

I met this really nice guy my senior year I mean amazing talented, sexy, smart, with the most gorgeous smile I have ever seen. Soon after we met we stated dating and 8 months later we became official. Many things leading up to us being official made him feel forced to be with me and two days ago he broke up with me. We still text and laugh and were still friends but I can't help thinking he's not over me and were going to get back together which I know is not going to happen. I don't want to have sex with any other men and I don't do drugs or drink. Please tell me a good way to just get over him as a boyfriend and be a better friend to him than I was a girlfriend. I'm in a really fragile state so please don't make rude comments I really want a serious answer.

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  • 9 years ago
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    Well all I can say is feelings can't change just like that bud. They are precious so you should cherish it and the memories you had as boyfriend and girlfriend. Now what you should do is probably hang out as a group with other people, find a hobby to take your mind off him and most importantly... GIVE IT TIME. Sorry but I had to caps lock that because like I said, feelings don't disappear instantly even if someone gives a good answer and suggestion. All the best and hope it works out. Stay strong and enjoy life. You're only young once :D

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    you may find this is a stupid answer but you should give it a go. i am not saying you should get drunk because it wont make your feelings go away but you should meet with all your girl friends and go on a night out. have some fun. chat up a few guys even if you dont like them. try find a guy with opposite qualities as your ex.

    sorry if this hasnt helped

  • 9 years ago

    Honey, there is nothing we can say to help you feel better or to move on, only you can decide that but he ended it and maybe he has more important things in his life and didn't see the relationship going anywhere, Good Luck

    Source(s): Divorced
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