I think my parents hate me?

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for i little while now my parents have been ignoring me and yelling at me for the dumbest stuff. for about a year i have been expeirencing suicidal thoughts. i have been through a lot of bullying for the pst couple years and my parents seem more distant no matter how mant time i try to pull them close. i started calling suicide hotlines after i tried to kill myself and they told me to tell my parents. they said that my parents love me and that when i tell them and they get me help ill know for sure. well i told my mom about all these feelings and she said that i was just a hormonal teenager. she said that i was just stressed and told me that maybe i should go to bed a little earlier so that i could get a better nights sleep and that would help. -_- i have tried to really not think about commiting suicide but now more than i ever i have come to relize that if i did kill myself. no one would care. i even asked some friends once what they would do if i dies and they said nothing. they said there would be no point in crying at all. (i was actually very surprised by this and that was the day i attempted suiced) ive talked to my mom on other occasions and she just told me to stop bringing it up. that it was getting annoying and that i should just leave everyone alone. i feel so unloved and i dont know what to do. the only thing that seems to be keeping me from actually ending my life is telling myself just a few more years and then i can go away to college and be away from them and start new. that is pretty much the only thing keeping me from it and i dnt know what to do anymore. HELP??


** I also had no idea which category to put this in**

Kinky Little Paradox · Accepted Answer

My sister and I have been through a very similar thing. Our father left when I was a kid after he got physical and my mam went a bit crazy after that. She has stages of how great she is.
 After I convinced my older sister to finally tell our mum about her self-harm (I'd tried to deal with it myself for years) our mum just yelled at her and told her she did it all for attention. My older sister ran away when she was 17 (a year ago) and PLEASE don't do this! It wrecked me completely. 
  
 Do you have any siblings? I assume not from what you've said but if you do talk to them, not neccessarily about what's going on, likelyhood is they know already. Befriending your siblings does an amazing amount to help. You're going through it together and you're no longer alone. 
 If not siblings do you have any cousins or extended family at all? I never had this but I recently uncovered a cousin, she's younger than  me but it still helps. You have someone who's your own blood they're automatically a friend that way and it's just getting closer. 
 In your situation having an older cousin or uncle/grandparents or someone will be helpful. Even though you probably won't you'll have that safeguard of SOMEWHERE to run if you have to. Try and get close to your grandparents, if you mention how you're feeling unloved then they'll probably drop hints to your parents and may help. 

Stay strong. Try talking to your parents, maybe ask them if they want to watch a movie, cook a meal for them or clean the house. Show them that you care. It's possible that they don't realise what they're doing (I know a lot of teenagers who just want to be left alone all the time). If you show them that you want to spend time with them it's possible that they'll respond. If you have a dog ask your mam if she wants to take it for a walk with you. Offer to go grocery shopping with them. 
 Anything you can to make it clear you're reaching out, you're making an effort. I've always found that just going into my mum's room when she's watching TV sometimes can lead to a big conversation about the telly.

 Other than that, stay strong. Remember that it is a few years. Where I am (England) you can leave at 16. Some people's parents aren't great. You're not alone. Loads of people have got through this. Loads of people have coped. You can do the same. Listen to happy music. Watch the sunrise. Know that you have your whole life to live.

augst · Answer

Sure! You're right. Father and mother are the final to study that life is okay to are living just as it's. They want you to excel them in employment, they sacrificed so much so that you can become higher than them, but when all is claimed and carried out...It is your lifestyles. Handiest you can be who you opt for to be. Apart from, janitor get paid excellent cash. It can be the repute of the job: just much less for mother and father to brag about to their pals. If you could support help your loved ones, you go for it. Hold existence simple..You'll be able to revel in it more...Your individuals will too when they understand they have more time to spend with their grandchildren and you. I assume, some sacrifices are valued at making. Distinguished question! Your dad and mom will recover from it...Will you?

Anonymous · Answer

Hey, I'm really sorry :(. Especially about what your friends said to you...I can't imagine how alone that could make you feel. Suicide is not the answer, I can promise you that. I just recently got out of depression and cutting. Please feel free to email me, because I would care if you commited suicide, and I could try and help maybe? Sometimes its just nice to have someone to talk to. My email is nomoretears09@ymail.com. Stay strong<3

Elizabeth · Answer

Go to a counsler, call them yourself and they should help!

Anonymous · Answer

don't worry god loves you pray to him and ask for help.

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