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Please advice? I have been having sex with my boyfriend since last one year,at times with/without condom.?

I am 26yrs and I have not had my period since last three months though my bf still has sex with me often.He has promised to marry me but seeing the hindi serials I feel tht he may be betraying me.I know I am pregnant. My tummy has bulged slightly.I feel shy to attend the college though it is not so much visible. My Bf says that he wants the child and will adopt me and the child later.My parents stay far away and I have put up in a hostel for the purpose of study.We keep meeting even now but what to do ? Please help, I am nervous as the days are passing by.Once it is leaked out in the college or in the hostel - I do not know what will happen to me.I have not had any nausea or vomiting till now.Please,please advice - I have to decide and you are to help.I know that I have committed the biggest mistake of my life - SORRY!!

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    get aborted first

    abortion is dangeours after 4 month

    hurry up and do it first

    u shouldn't do like this, u r paretns has lot of confidence on u and u broked it.

    dont do it again and dont have sex with ur bf often,

    ask him clearly that is he going to marry u, find confidence in his words,

    if possible here after dont have sex with him tell him everything after marriage if he really loves u then he will wait and marry or if he is using u, he just leaves u

    first of all get aborted

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Be an unmarried pregnant lady, thus causing the society to spit on your face. You will make your family's name dissolve into thin nothingness, make the relatives talk, get chucked out of the social circle and declared unwanted.

    Abort the foetus which would have been born with the status of being unwanted or an accident.

    Yes, some of you would be coming up with a solution of the boy and girl being forced to marry and thus raising the child. But what if your boy friend does not marry now? What if both of you are not secure or mature enough to deal with such a situation? What if both of you are just not ready for it? Yes I hear others say that then they should have never had sex. But who are the others to decide that? Sex is a choice and it’s not for the bystanders to decide.

    I do not support abortion after the foetus is 20 weeks old. But I will still support it if it endangers the life of the woman. We have a right over our own body and we are at liberty to choose. Do not be against abortion if you believe in pre marital sex. It is the choice of yours. This is my viewpoint and I am in no way starting a debate here. If you are against abortion its for you to judge your future.

  • 9 years ago

    Mistake???? Alright you had all the pleasure you could have without the protection,knowing the consequences and now you call it a mistake?ha?? I don't know about your boy but you need to talk to him openly and make sure that he is staying with you whole life.Before that go for a check-up along with your boyfriend...you have to ask him to come with you and if he resists then you will get to know if your boy is reliable or not.Please,don't be sorry for anyone else and if you genuinely feel that...then let it be for your parents.TC...And yeah...don't do any stupid things after watching those ******* TV serials...alright??

  • 9 years ago

    Sorry, but it's the f&#@ing you get for the f&#@ing you got. And you're not the only woman in the world to go through this. Hopefully you take responsibility for your life and body and should use protection until you are ready to deal with the realities of pregnancy/STD's.

    Source(s): School of Common Sense
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  • abha
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    Speak him clearly. Get checked up. Being delayed may ruin your life. You have already made a mistake by having sex without protection.

  • 9 years ago

    Wel i Wud say dnt panic and try to be wat u r

    dnt take decisions too early

    maybe ur bf is true

    dnt mis judge him or else it cn ruin ur lyf

    if u thnk u r pergnent 1st hav a check up

    once its cleared

    dat its true or false

    u shud start planing for ur future

    hav faith in urslf and ur choice and make dicisn

    dnt ruin ur lyf by taking or askin help from othrs

    jst thnk 4 urslf and ur lyf and take decisn

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