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I have now been talking to a guy for a few weeks now that I've met online and he is everything I look for in a guy, funny, cute, tall, caring, understanding, mature and etc. But the catch is that he is still legally married (in process of divorce) and has a two year old son. We have only talked over the phone, texting and all that good stuff. We are planning to meet each other in about two weeks but I'm afraid that I will get attached to him. I'm aware that his baby mama has the right to come in and out of his life but I really care and have feelings towards him. Should I let my guard down and expect the worse but hope for the best? Or distant from him?

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  • 9 years ago
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    In life, expecting the worse does nothing but bring you down, giving up before you try never gets you anywhere, but accepting the worst as an option but trying regardless at least gives you the satisfaction that you tried, without the constant negativity of expecting it to happen. You never know how it can turn out, don't sell yourself short and think ya do!

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  • 9 years ago

    You should be fine, just don't be a c*nt to his family and ex wife and especially his kid(s).

    Sorry about the C word but it needs to be used to show how bad it can be to his family, sorta happened to me, i was the kid.

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