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Andy asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 9 years ago

Friend cutting me out.?

I'It confuses me a lot. I have a friend who I'm into. She's supposedly a lesbian but has never had a girlfriend (nor a boyfriend) she flirts with me a lot and knows I like her. Every so often she cuts me out of her life without giving any real reason. Then we begin talking and seeing eachother again. The other day she did it again, and I asked why as usual. She gave me the reason that she acts different with me than other people. We were talking a little after that and she said to me "maybe we can carry on seeing eachother" so I said "if the way I make you act is bothering you that much maybe we need to stop seeing eachother" so she agreed then the next day she asked if we could stay in contact but just not see eachother face to face.

If you're wondering, I've asked her if there will be anything between us ever and she says no because she's a lesbian.

Why is she doing this?

Update:

I didn't put it exactly as it is.

When she stops speaking to me, I ask for a reason and when she doesn't give me one I ask if we can just carry on seeing eachother. She gives in. She is obviously conflicted about something to do with me.

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  • 9 years ago

    Why is she doing this? Because you let her.

    Number one, she is a lesbian, leave her alone. Number two, why is she the one controlling the relationship, when to talk and when not to talk? You allow her to do that to you. She is playing with your mind, that's not a true friend! What friend asks you not to talk face to face? What, is she embarrassed to be seen talking to you? Forget that girl, she's not good for you. Drama mama.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    she loves u

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