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Andy asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 9 years ago

My friend is cutting me out?

It confuses me a lot. I have a friend who I'm into. She's supposedly a lesbian but has never had a girlfriend (nor a boyfriend) she flirts with me a lot and knows I like her. Every so often she cuts me out of her life without giving any real reason. Then we begin talking and seeing eachother again. The other day she did it again, and I asked why as usual. She gave me the reason that she acts different with me than other people. We were talking a little after that and she said to me "maybe we can carry on seeing eachother" so I said "if the way I make you act is bothering you that much maybe we need to stop seeing eachother" so she agreed then the next day she asked if we could stay in contact but just not see eachother face to face.

If you're wondering, I've asked her if there will be anything between us ever and she says no because she's a lesbian.

Why is she doing this?

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  • 9 years ago
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    She could be confused, or she could be playing with you, but either way, I wouldn't let her subject you to this and I would distance yourself from her. There are people who will be your friend and treat you right, and there are girls who would want to date you. Go find them and stop wasting your time with this girl.

  • 9 years ago

    Maybe she's just confused or bipolar? And she doesn't know what she wants yet, just wait and see where it goes. Or just move on, maybe seeing you with someone else will make her jealous.

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