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Why do some people not get bother by loneliness?

I have seen some people in school who really dun seem to have any friends and dun seem to be bothered.Are they really ok with it?or just pretending?How does someone not get bother by loneliness?Like me,I dun have an active social life,so I'm lonely alot,and I get disturbed by it.So how can I be lonely and not be bothered?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    It depends on your personality and what type of a person you are. I don't think so that anyone enjoys life without friendship even not nerds.Some people who are loners and enjoy being like how you described than they would be having another type of enjoyment because you can't live life without some kind of entertainment. There might be some people who are like this (loners) but these kind of people are just wasting there lives like Oscar Wilde said " To live is the rarest thing most people exist that is all".But most of these people you see aren't happy they just pretend to be.

    Source(s): My own experience
  • 9 years ago

    Honestly, it's a type of mental attitude or way of thinking. Some people need interaction and acceptance from other people to feel good. Other people (like me) have a lone wolf mentality. I can lock myself in my room for 16 hours and produce music but I don't mind hanging out with my friends. When you say "So how can i be lonely and not bothered?" well to be honest if you're being bothered by that there is really no way to change it unless you seek professional help.

  • 9 years ago

    I also see so many such people who are lonely but still enjoying their lives. I think they have others sorts of accompany, except the human, like books, internet, games etc. One can be happy if s/he does what s/he enjoys. And, it is not always human accompany that makes another person enjoy their lives.

  • Alion
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Some people are loners by nature. But it's rare even for them not to have any friends at all-most likely they have two or three close friends,or even just one. We're all social animals.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    eh, everyone's different and needing to be around people changes as we all need some type of company sometime. go ahead and be bothered by it.

    but if you really want company, learn to arrange for fun times as well, so you can always have it when you need it.

  • 9 years ago

    Maybe at school they dont seem tohave friends but you never know , they might have al kinds at home. Me personally prefer to bealone but then again i have my dog.

  • 9 years ago

    idk but I just wanna say thanks for the advice and you should hit me up ezda1gangsterkid

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