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Need help with these feelings, giving 10 points (best answer)?
Sometimes, I get infuriated when my bf forgets to answer my texts, or text me at all (sometimes he wouldnt text me for a whole day, sometimes on purpose, sometimes he forgets)
And there are other numerous little things he does which irritate me, and then they build up.
I find myself slowly hating him and there were times I'd break up with him in an instant.
Then when I think about it, I'd probably regret it. So what my problem is, I do dislike him and like him at the same time. Is it so wrong that I want him to show me he cares? Is it so wrong I want affection from my OWN boyfriend?
6 Answers
- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
No its not wrong to want attention or to show he cares. U get mad because by not textin u he is being inconsiderate of ur feelings n im reckoning the rest of the things he does is being inconsiderate and/or disrespectful. Makin plans cancelling being late not texting. Its all the same. U need to tell this boy to stop being inconsiderate. He has to put in the time if he wants it to work. Tell him u want atleast 1 text a day just to let u know hes ok and thinkin of u. And when u text him to text bk when he gets a minute. If he still doesnt get it next time he needs u like an answer from u or to hear from u dont text him bk. Then wen he calls u out tell him its just plain rude isnt it. I dunno wot to suggest after that x
Source(s): life - joglarLv 45 years ago
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- 9 years ago
I recently went through the same situation.. i ended up leaving him and at first it sucked but i wouldn't change a thing now. You should probably take a break. Give it some time for you to get some space and go from there if after 3 months you still miss him talk it out set boundaries and try. It sounds like your already preparing yourself maybe not consciously but if the thought of breaking up with him goes through your head than you probably want to. Be strong cause its going to suck but if i can do it so can you :) (i was with my ex for 4 years ) Good luck!!!!
- 9 years ago
It's not wrong at all that you want affection, and those feelings ARE normal that you have. You really just need to sit down and have a civilized conversation about how you feel and what your needs are and how he can fulfill your wants and needs from him. I hope you two work it out!!! (:
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- 9 years ago
No it isn't wrong to want affection from your BF but you must ask for it in a way that makes him want to be affectionate to you. If you come at him with complaints and negativity then he will NOT want to be affectionate to you. You trap bees with honey.....get what you want by being nice and loving.
- Anonymous9 years ago
Umm just say u want to spend some time with him and if he asks y just say i hav been feeling faraway with yu im sure he will understand