I feel too sexy all the time even in the college where I have to take lectures.Is it anything abnormal ?

Sexiness has a way of sneaking up on us at the most improbable moments.

Mirrors, as all women know, are highly politicized entities. It is entirely possible for you to look and feel reasonably hot in front of your own mirror and, less than an hour later, catch a reflection of yourself that suggests some shapeless creature pinching all over your bare body.

You may have felt almost unbearably sexy for no apparent or justifiable reason while retrieving the newspaper in pajamas and clogs, standing over the kitchen sink washing dishes or elsewhere.

So, sexiness is a state of mind.

Your cleavages or skirt length or the dimensions of your posteriors, feeling sexy is, at its root, about owning yourself.It's all about knowing who you are .

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

In this culture, what's hot are your breasts and youth. The majority of us don't have enough of one or the other, or either. That's why it’s easy to be sexy in a dark room. In your own mind you can be Jennifer Lopez. But when you walk into a bathroom with unflattering light, it makes you crumple. So perhaps the thing to do is focus on that feeling of having the lights out, of being anything you want to be, rather than thinking about how sexy your body is.

Its for you to realize that sexiness, by its very nature, is evanescent. It makes appearances only on the grounds that it will soon disappear. Like a skilled flirt, it always backs down before we start to take its affections for granted. Like a wise teacher, it reminds us that true knowledge means knowing we'll never really know.

Method No 1: Go on a diet

It is thought that a severe diet can lower the production of sex hormones. The fewer the calories, the weaker the sexual drive. People are said to think less about sex after reducing calorie content of their food by 40%.

Do not forget that your diet should be free from the so-called aphrodisiacs i.e. spices (pepper, cinnamon, ginger, basil etc.), nuts, mushrooms, eggs, sea food, meat, fish, olives, honey and chocolate. More importantly, refrain from drinking alcoholic beverages.

Method No2: Exercise

The protagonist in the Italian movie The Taming of the Shrew (no relation to a comedy by Shakespeare) would start violently chopping up firewood every time he saw a beauty passing by. Strenuous physical exercise can be a good help in a battle between the spirit and the flesh.

You can go to a gym if your ax is not at hand in the right moment. Alternatively, you can do a hundred of sit-ups or push-ups.

Method No3: Try mortification of the flesh

Historically, mortification was one of the most effective ways of overcoming temptations of the flesh. Many monks would subjugate their bodies by abstinence, ascetic discipline and self-inflicted suffering. For example, Saint Benedict, the founder of Benedictine order, would rush to the brier every time he felt the onset of sexual arousal.

Method No4: Take medication

Rumor has it that cooks in the Soviet army were given special orders to slip bromide into the food of draftees so that the latter may be less preoccupied with sex. Other drugs can also help keep libido down: antidepressants, tranquilizers, beta blockers, diuretics, sedatives, and some drugs for treating cardiovascular diseases.

However, the above are normally prescribed for treating conditions that are not by any means related to sexual arousal. It is dangerous to take them without seeing your doctor first.

Method No 5: Practice extreme sports and activities

Going in for some energetic athletic activity usually leads to an increase in the production of adrenaline, an important hormone that has widespread effects on circulation, the muscles, and sugar metabolism. However, a higher level of adrenalin can never trigger erection. You can practice martial arts (Thai boxing, karate etc.) or a variety of extreme sports e.g. diving, skydiving, mountaineering and the like. You may as well join the army or a soccer fan club. Some people claim that a good fight is better then sex.

Method No 6: Say a prayer

The following is a piece of advice posted on a web site run by one of the Russian Orthodox groups: “You can resort to a great remedy when you start growing weaker and find yourself at the end of your tether. A prayer can be your last hope because the Lord is strong enough to save even those whose are on the verge of an abysm. Don’t hesitate and start praying, especially when lascivious thoughts come rushing in. A short yet persistently repeated prayer ‘Have mercy on me!’ can be particularly useful under the circumstances.”

Method No 7: Find a distraction to keep yourself from thinking about sex

It is hard to believe that workaholics can be great lovers, whatever some scientists may say to the contrary. Can you picture a guy working 12-14 hours a day with sex on his mind? Well, if you can, you must be talking pure fiction.

There are other things that can distract you from sexual activities. You can read books, do crossword puzzles or play computer games. The latter are especially good because they are very time-consuming. Never-ending online sagas like Lineage-2 that are reportedly played by thousands day and night can do the trick.

Method No 8: Get a job in a sex industry

It resembles homeopathy, the method of treating disease by drugs, given in minute doses to produce in a healthy person symptoms similar to those of the disease.

Good luck

Hi,

The best that i would suggest is instead of following all the creepy advices, do meditation every day in the morning, and before you go to sleep. evey one have sexual feelings but for some its more due to secretions of harmones for some it will be less, for some maintained and for some more. thats not a abnormality. meditation and yoga will not only help you to concentrate on your studies but also to control your deviating and to be healthy.thats my best suggestion for you. take care any more details be free to ask me like a good freind. num is 9573972254.

why are you destract from your study

above guy is right

stop watching bad movie or whatever you do some badily in your daily life

stay away from those things which attracts you to bad thing

i mean your friend

Mr.Rajan is a mind health professional and he sure can help, if you live in Chennai. I am sure about his competency. His contact is 94444 70354.

actually its not abnormal..but may effect ur studies n evrything..i happens with lot of people...especially in teenagers

This happens with some girls.

U can talk to a Gynecologist and get advise.

stop watching any sexual things if u r doing so and try to not think of sex !! hope that helps

no, not all you ,are normal.