I'm to romantic i'm told....?

I'm to romantic i'm told.... Like for some reason being romantic is now a turn off in my generation you have no idea......i dont mean to...people think im this thug mob guy and people think i come off as a dick because the way i dress... eh...but im really sweet kind and romantic but like i grew up see my dad just adore my mother and just be like idk just loving and soo loyal and she is the same to him i saw this growing up with all my family and idk what to do....i know im not ugly but girls get scared...and they think im a player and im like omg really... do you get this?? psh im writing and im lost lol its hard for me with words sorry...i never like had a real GF before how can i be a player???? im never the one to dump im the one dump...pshh...