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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 9 years ago

My friend won't let me have other friends?

I have this friend let's call her Anne and we've been best friends since Kindergarten and we just started high school and I have this group of friends mostly girls that I like to hang out with that all went to my elementary/middle except for this one guy. At elementary school I would hang out with them but Anne would always interrupt me and on my grad trip to Niagara Falls we were taking a break and I was talking to 2 of my other friends and she walked right in front of me and the 2 girls I were talking to stood up for me. I have a feeling my other friends don't really like Anne and to be honest I don't really like her either and she's done stuff like that before but it hasn't really been much more than that. Until today, my bus was late and I was waiting outside with my other friends because most of them go on my bus and they asked me if I was going to the barbecue at my elementary school, and I said probably I thought "Yes! I can finally hang out with them alone", and I went to the barbecue with my friends and was having a great time with them. Then Anne showed up and I was pissed but I hid it because Anne's still my friend and asked her how she found out about the barbecue and she she said she called my house and my dad said I was out and she asked him where I was and he said I was out and she asked where and he said "at her old school for the barbecue" so she came to the school for me and I jokingly said " That's a little creepy" and didn't seem upset by it. Truth is I was pissed and I still am. What should I do?

Update:

@Nick why would I do that I like all my other friends except for Anne

Update 2:

I finally got to hang out with friends alone today and my one friend told me this that at our grad trip which was at the Great Wolf Lodge I asked Anne before we got to the waterpark to wait for me cuz I had to "feminine issues" and of course when I got back she wasn't there. And my friend let's call her Kaylie told me she was waiting in line in the slide and Anne was was beside her and Kaylie asked Anne where Sarah(me) was and she said " she went to the bathroom" and Kaylie said "Why didn't you wait for her" and Anne said" she told me to wait but I didn't want to so I went on this slide" and Kaylie said "you should go down there with her, she's probably looking for you" and Anne said "so I don't care".

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  • 9 years ago
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    Tell them there all ******* and get new ones

  • 9 years ago

    Well first of all try to calm down. Try to analize the situation first. If you really don't like being around "anne" just try to be honest in a non harmful way to her. If she has really no friends it's most probable that she is jealous that you are paying more attention to your other group of friends. If you decide you really don't want her in your life anymore try ignoring her and at some point she will get the memo. That is all I could suggest to you. Hope I helped.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Tell her you don't want to be her friend anymore. Or tell her all this let her know that this bothers you if you still want to be her friend. My advice would be to keep your old friends because I went through a similar situation and I told the person I didnt want to be his friend and to this day I wish I hadn't done that.

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