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Is there something wrong with me for not wanting to do anything sexual..?

I've went out with a few guys/girls and made out with kind of a lot, I really enjoy kissing someone who's a good kisser and going on dates. Although, I'm not really interested in having sex or anything beyond 2nd base. I don't masturbate either.. Is there something wrong with me? I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm kinda proud to be a virgin lol, so don't make fun of me~ Thanks in advance!

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  • Jon042
    Lv 4
    9 years ago
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    No, sex drives vary widely among people. I myself have a pretty well developed sexual appetite, as does my girlfriend (which is good for both of us). You will find it more difficult to have a satisfying relationship with someone whose sex drive is much stronger than yours (which, unfortunately, is a lot of guys). However, there are plenty of people out there who prize many traits well above sexual compatibility (myself included).

    As I understand it, a lot of girls do not have independently strong sex drives, but rather, they develop desires towards a very specific person as they develop a relationship. Meet the right person, and you may rethink your "lack of interest" as it were.

    Another thing to consider is this: Women reach their sexual prime in there mid-twenties, not their teens. Most women develop more, not less, desire as time goes on. Many barely have a sexual appetite at all until their twenties. Its actually quite common.

    I am glad to know, by the way, that you are open about your emotions, but cautious with your sexuality. Dating and kissing many people in your lifetime is nothing to be ashamed about. But you should have a really good reason for every person you have sex with, and you should really want it each and every time. Sex is powerful, intimate, and satisfying with the right person.

    So good luck with love, and remember not to mind any negative or careless responses you get here.

    And for the record, me and my girlfriend were both 18 when we lost our virginity to each other, after well over a year of steady dating.

    Nothing wrong with that.

  • 9 years ago

    nope you are healthy as you can be. Don't engage in masturbation it will only distract your mental feel

  • ?
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    i would suggest you have not met anyone you really like --- when you do there will be sparks of that i am sure

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    wtf? no! in my opinion that's better! less chances of stds and pregnancy

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