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Why my life always get wrong?

Since i was born everything goes wrong. Whatever i touch it turns wrong. Whatever i loved i lost. Whatever happened good to me it never last for long and i lost it leaving me hurt and so disappointed. The more i care the more hurt i get. What is wrong with my life? I am very inteligent person but i am not able to do anything to keep away from hurting spots. No matter how hard i try to do everything right, something always happen that i lose it somehow and then i don't want to live anymore. I know i don't have any mental illness, just depressed but i am sure i have a devil behind my back that destroy everything i care for. Why?????? How to get rid of it??????

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  • 9 years ago
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    Everything in your life has NOT gone wrong. I bet if you stop and really analyse your life, you will find lots of positive things.

    Stop feeling sorry for yourself; get out there and enjoy life to the full...it's the only one you'll have!

  • 9 years ago

    Obviously, it is the manner in which and by which you understand the nature of that which is.

    Instead of seeing things as they are in the reality of their being without judgment or bias, you are seeing things as you think or want them to be and they are simply not that way.

    You are also operating under the misunderstanding and delusion that all things have permanence, which they do not possess.

    This all goes back to your lack of knowledge and understanding of who you really are. By such one is not speaking of any aspect of your immediate being that does not have permanence. You name has no permanence. Your body has no permanence, Your academic and your employment have no permanence. You must come to know and to understand that which is the real "you" and that which is permanence.

    In this search, do accept anything that you do not personally have a lived experience of regardless of who might have said something, or what supposed holy book it is written in, etc. This means that you have the responsibility to carefully reflect, without judgment or bias, on all that you experience so as to understand and to come to know the same as it truly is. Realize also that there are only two things any one can know with any certainty in this life. The first is that all that has a beginning has an end, which means that all living beings will experience death. The second is that we no one knows when his or her death will happen. Then realizing that life is impermanent and subject to sudden and drastic change, cherish all of life and all of those whom you love as you do not know how long you may be with them. One should also live a moral and ethical life so as to be of benefit to all else that exist.

    In this search, you must learn to live in constant awareness so as to be in the present moment, which is the only time we have. Let go of the past and, do no strive towards the future as neither exist.

    You must also learn that which has caused you to suffer. It would appear that such is the desires you cling to. Let go of those desires, desires for things to be the way you want things to be and allow all that is to be the way it is. Learn how to live in such a manner that allows you to be free from your desires and thereby your suffering that does no harm to all others nor any harm to yourself.

    Change yourself and you will change all things as you are a part of the whole of all that is.

  • 5 years ago

    existence easily under no circumstances tries to educate us incorrect, it purely exhibits us the actuality. yet we experience that our existence isn't helping us. We take incorrect judgements and experience that existence is proving us incorrect. i don't experience so. Our existence purely exhibits us the reflect. And at the same time as some human beings can not see themselves as they need, they experience that there is difficulty with the reflect.

  • Joel
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    One of your parents has brainwashed you to become unhappy, or psychologically castrated you if you always fall for the wrong person or for a person who represents everything you hate and despise.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Turn to the dark side my friend. *Vader heavy breathing*

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    life is shite, embrace death, embrace the afterlife

    Source(s): I WANT to die!
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