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Why does my friend go after any man who shows interest in her?

I have a friend I have known for many years. She is married at the moment but everytime a guy shows any interest in her or flirts with her she will go with him. Many years ago I got involved with her but she was secretly off with other men at the same time so it only lasted a few months. We just get along as friends now but I cannot understand why she would go with anyone - and often they are not good looking either - doesn't matter what they look like and she will even meet up with men who randomly add her on facebook. She keeps telling me she will stop but she still does it.

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  • 9 years ago
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    She's probably incredibly insecure with herself and needs the affection of a man for self-assurance. It's why a lot of teenage girls sleep around a lot now-a-days. Because it makes her feel good to know that someone else likes her or wants to be with her and she craves that attention. Everyone is like that at least a little bit, I consider myself pretty secure but even I blush when a cutie flirts with me and I'm married too. But to the extent that you're talking about, It's very unhealthy, and she should seek counseling to work on herself before her marriage completely falls apart under her own hands.

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    5 years ago

    Sounds like she is using you as an icebreaker to get other guys , giver her a reality check by telling her bf... a real friend would not compete but rejoice for you , I wouldn't fell one bit guilty for her losses and stupidity. Everyone deserves a couple chances , but one day you are going to realize that she has had too many chances , that's when you drop her easy, Just fade. Also I wouldn't go looking for a bf with her along, sounds detrimental and you will get a rep you don't want.

  • 9 years ago

    I am assuming you still like her if you're this concerned about a married woman? (I don't know, it just seems that way) but some people are just like that. It's really her business though. I would think she simply likes attention and social interaction.

  • 9 years ago

    maybe men fill a certain empty space in her heart? or she is just to open with people.

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  • 9 years ago

    i think she likes to make love and its horrible that she meets up with strangers. i once knew someone who did that the person killed her

  • 9 years ago

    Because she is a f**k s**t , can i have her contact details ?

  • 9 years ago

    she marrried? thats fucked up

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