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WHAT TO DO SHES CHEATING ON HIM;{?

ok so my sister in law {brothers gf} let me use her phone while she was cooking i was calling my friend we were talkinng for like 30min then i mistakenly hang up and there were 2 miss text tht pop up saying." from tray: hey babe " second text " text me babe i miss u " . i was hella mad but to make sure it wasnt my brother i cheacked the number of tray . it did not match and it was defenetly someone else. i was curius so i read some other messages and this conversation caught my eyes sayning "tray :what you wearing babe " my sis:"your tee from the other night and sweeat pants" SO im pretty sure this girl is cheating on my big brother . me and my brother are pretty close and i really want to tell him. sooner or later hes going to find out but mean while imma feel like i betray my brother and guilty. my brother and her have been together for 2 years and are trying to have a baby and they look in love . BUT now that i found out shes cheating on him i caint even look at her and caint imagine them being happy with a family and all that what should i do.....

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  • 9 years ago
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    Tell him, Tell him Tell him

    If your situation was reversed wouldnt you want someone to tell you.

    Better he finds out now than years from now when their future kids might get caught in the middle.

    Theres no excuse for cheating. Tell him.

    good luck and god bless

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    ok she handed you the phone to use, so the pop up texts were not something you went looking for, so take her by her trashy arm and say what the hell is this, it popped up when i was talking on the phone, if she says oh that was some friend just messing with her, then say ok prove it let look and see if there are any other messages from this friend AND lets call him

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    They are not married. You are a snoop and better be right. Why didn't You confront the girlfriend at the time? That is what you should do. Talk to her. Tell her what you saw disturbed you.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Tell him he NEEDS to look at her Phone.... He is going to be hurt...... But over all it will be for the best...

    Or Borrow her phone then show the messages to your bro

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Do you feel comfortable to confront her? Then when she has no explanation, go to your brother. Its his decision to stay or not, but he should know.

  • 9 years ago

    TELL HIM!

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