Why doesn't anybody like/love me?

Eh you're not a loser. You sound like a nice kids who's surrounded by idiots. I was bullied and picked on in high school. Never really fit in the "in crowd" and believe it or not I was a good student, even participated in extra curricular activities (even was a cheerleader believe it or not). But never got asked out and everyone made fun me including my so called friends. I wanted to drop out twice and probably should have (now that my life's an utter mess). But I worked hard because I. Thought I would get rewarded in the end and be happy. Unfortunately no such luck. I'm jobless and waster 4 years at college to be forced to drop out because I couldn't afford it after my dad died and now I spend most of my days taking care of my sick mother whom y family feels should be put in a nursing home. But in once since I'm happy I was picked on bullied. It made a stronger person during college and I could speak up for myself and say how I felt without caring. I also turned bitter and into a ***** but can't blame me, people make you who you are as you grow older. I have never had a boyfriend or a reasonable date and I'm 25. Now the only offers I get is to be a ******** vacuum or a walking talking one night only sex toy.

Life sucks, I won't sugar coat it and tell you one day this will happen and that will occur and unicorn farts and butterflies. That's all bullshit. Some of us are meant to be strong and other are meant to be weak. Others are meant to find love and others aren't. Just learn to be contented. And stop giving yourself to people too much. My dad did the same thing and barely anyone came to his funeral. That's sad to me. Think about what's best for you and only you. There won't be anybody else to treat you as good as you will treat yourself ok!! Keep that head up and if you have to start a blog or something and write down how you feel ^_^. Or find something that you know will please and make you happy and it's something to look forward to ok.

It sounds to me like you have been placed in the category of scapegoat in your family. You live in an alcoholic family. You are stuck playing a role that is a dead end role. Because of the abuse you experience at home [and yes, you are being abused, because you have a father who values his drink more than his family] you are stuck in a bit of a trap.

First, I'd love to see you in Alanon. It's a place where people who live the kind of life you're living can find support and FRIENDS. Yes, people who truly love you just as you are. Before others can value you, you have to learn to value yourself. So please see if there is an Alanon meeting in your area that you can attend. I want you to find what you need to be successful in life.

You have so much to offer. I wish I could have met a wonderful person like you when I was younger. I am alone and wonder why I am not lovable. Everyone around me thinks I'm so wonderful, but I am growing old alone and worthless. Somewhere out there is a nice young girl longing for a guy exactly like you. Get help so you can break away from the abuse at home, and then be whole when you meet her. I believe in you. I think you are worth it.

I believe it's getting old. There's this sort of thing as an excessive amount of commercial. It is doing itself in with all the hot-subject, wal-mart, book retailer stuff. Sure some persons nonetheless find it irresistible, but I suppose the obsession is dying down for many individuals. Alas, this doesn't comprise my 13 yr old cousin who thinks twilight is just like the high-quality e-book ever written.

Okay, Chandler... stop being so damned nice to everyone! When you're at school, plug your mp3 player into some Radiohead and chill out by yourself. By trying to be likeable, you're making yourself a target for bullies, who assume you have low self esteem.

Try the following

1) Get a different hairstyle, prefferably short with hairgel.

2) Wear a piece of jewellary, like a bracelet or neck chain.

3) Do 50 push-ups every morning, before breakfast.

4) Do 100 sit-ups every morning, before breakfast.

Life sucks enough already without you sucking at it. Keep your grades up and you'll be employing the 'tards who are bullying you.

I read it all and your not a loser... You don't sound like a bad person tbh you sound like you're to kind and that you give too many chances to people. Your 6'2 Use your height to your advantage and start fighting back. Someone hits you, hit them back. Stick up for yourself abit more. Just ignore your alcoholic Dad and your Ignorant Mum and focus on making yourself and a selective few ( True Friends ) Happy :) You sound like you deserve some happiness. Don't give things out willy nilly the other people might see you as a big pushover and that is why they bully you. DON'T KILL YOURSELF. and Yeah you'll get bitches like your ex but dw i believe there is someone out there for everyone, just be patient and LIVE YOUR LIFE!

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Adam Gilad

David Deangelo

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Neil Strauss

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Apply their teachings to your life. Stop letting people walk all over you. It's going to be hard at first, but that's life.

If you do something nice for someone and they give you crap, STOP DOING NICE THINGS FOR THEM.

that bcos u re too shy nd fragile, u need to stand up for urself, iin my high school, i dnt take **** frm anyone.