Guys would you be mad at me for trying to help?

tough one!! I was in the british royal navy, I hated it and got out it just wasnt for me after theater i didnt like. being in the royal navy I guess I was tucked up pretty safe off the front line and i still hated it, so I can only imagine what its like being on the front line in theater. maybe you could tell him you can talk about him when hes home and you can make the decision together, but he needs to concentrate on what he is doing right now, as for him not texting you he might have been too busy he may have been on a mission that prevented him from using his comms. if you didnt care and help then he would be mad it shows you care for him and his welfare above your own so dont beat yourself up x

I feel like to be honest it needs to be his choice, and you should support him in what he decides. That being said I know someone in a very similar situation who had already put in a good amount of time in the military here in the states (several years), and when he was almost to the point where he could leave he messed up and got kicked out. It is and will be for some time the biggest regret of his life. I think how long someones been in and what they stand to earn for their service is always going to be a factor in their decision, but if they feel like they just can not do it anymore for whatever reason friends and family still need to support them all the same. In your case though, no matter what if he can't cope with being there anymore, you ought to support him in leaving, but let him know how you feel and that you'll support him either way. Good luck.

Honey you need to tell him that he has to decide for him not for you. That way if he hates it like he says then he will leave because of him and will be mad at himself if he regrets it. Good luck

No I wouldn't. If he is doing it for you and wants a future and a family then fine get out if he can.