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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 9 years ago

Girl advice/shy girl ? help?

I like this girl, her friends say she like me too, but, every time I goto ask her out I chicken out, also she is like heaps shy! i'd be her first boyfriend, help

? what do i do

Update:

i'd have no problem, but because she's shy, I'm affraaid it wouldn't last because iv'e been with more ''open girls''

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Good i feel she was once blushing, if i blush i attempt to quilt it up. I suppose its only a girly factor! If i have been you i might look for the signs: does she play together with her hair keep eye contact more then a typical eye contact if shes shy she will put her hands in front of her chest licking or biting her lips if she does these i'd say she likes her then move in! But when she does not then i wouldn't i hope it helps

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    First of all, dont try to rush her into anything, because that could scare her off. If you suddenly start telling her shes beautiful and proclaiming your undying love she wont know what to say back, and it could get awkward. But dont be too creeper or secret admirer-er about it either (there was this boy who would leave me notes in my locker all the time and he would whisper stuff to me in my ear.. it was just weird).

    Just talk to her. Sometimes you have to be her best friend before you can be her boyfriend, especially if shes shy and has never had a boyfriend before.

    Source(s): I've been in her position.
  • 9 years ago

    dont freak out! if her friends say so they are probably being asked to drop hints to ask her out, so try to get her alone and be completely honest about the situation "Hey ive been kind of hesitating to do this because im nervous but i thought id give it a shot, will you go out with me?" this is an example that will probably work well! being shy she wont know how to say no anyway so just relax and be confident and positive! good luck

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Maybe write her a letter about how you feel & tell her to come meet you somewhere at a certain time :) slip the letter in her locker or give it to one of her friends to give it to her! Make it special- remember its her first! X

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  • 5 years ago

    #1 Social Reprogramming Method : http://socialanxiety.uzaev.com/?Npul

  • 9 years ago

    well if her friends already told you she likes you to, then whats the problem?! just ask this girl out...

    if you treat her good it will last

    now go answer mine

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Just ask her. What have you got to lose? The worst thing that could happen is that she says no, and that's okay....but it doesn't hurt to try.

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