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How to tell girlfriend she's getting too big?

Alright so first of all I know any ladies who read this are gonna write me off as an asshole immediately but i accept that and have to ask this anyways...I've been with my girl for 6 years. Within the last couple years I've been noticing that she's getting bigger. It's at the point now where I'm not really attracted to her anymore. There's two options here..I could just break up with her for some random reason or I could sit down and talk to her about it. Basically what I wanna know is how I can tell her how I feel without 1. Hurting her feelings and 2. Looking like a complete asshole..ladies...your input is more valuable to me that the men's on this one

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    Dude

    If you are a fool to dare to tell your girlfriend shes fat your more of a jerk then any girl could ever tell you. If by now you don't love her and respect her its time to let her go and find a real man who will accept her for who she is. Think of it this way how would you feel if your girlfriend told you that your dick is the smallest shes ever had and you suck in bed. I am sure a ruff and tuff guy like you would dump her and if i was her i would dump you once i send a copy of this to her,

    What a jerk

  • 9 years ago

    Coming from a female, I don't think you're an a**hole for calling for what it is. You should tell her, you think yoga is sexy/ or seeing a girl workout is a huge turn on. Tell her your planning on joining a gym and ask if she would like to join with. Or you could just tell her the truth. She may slap you, say you're insensitive and a ahole, but trust and believe she'll be thankful, in the future. Hope this helped.

  • 9 years ago

    Dont out right tell her she.will become self consious and shy around u not.knowin what looks nice on her or if its to tight. Suddle.things. Suggest helping u get in shape take.her running with u or to the gym but never make her feel like.shes unattractive she will just pull away from u

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    TELL HER ! She will deffinitely try her hardest to get back in shape if she really wants to be with you and wants to attract you. Jus sit down and talk to her, she can't get mad if yu actually try and talk it out and tell her how you feel...Go to the gym with her sometimes maybe, eat healthy with her. She'll feel better if yu are with her while she's trying to lose weight so you can be more attracted to her. Always talk, be honest and never hol anything back in relationships

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  • 9 years ago

    Just remember looks aren't everything, it's the inside that counts. Not the outside

  • 9 years ago

    Suggest that you all go to the gym and work out together or something like that.

  • 9 years ago

    Tell her how you feel.. not everything need sugar coated. & yes looks arent everything BUT you also need to be attractive. JUST SAYIN!

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