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What does it mean if my date was happy until someone else asked her out?

Long story shorter. There is a girl that I really like. I bought her a rose and asked her to the homecoming dance, she accepted the rose, said yes, and hugged me. We were both very happy that day. A day later, someone else bought her a rose and asked her to the homecoming dance too. Of course she didn't accept the invitation, but she took the rose anyways. When I found out about it, I talked to her about it. I told her that I am sad because someone else gave her a rose, and I'm worried that she accepted it. She told me that she didn't accept the invitation and told me not to worry about it. I sensed a change in her mood, she seem sad and quiet, which was unusual. After we talked about it, we both ended up being sad and quiet. She ignored my message and set me offline on Facebook.(I think.)

I think that she likes the other guy more than me and because of me, she can't date the other guy instead.

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  • 9 years ago
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    It seems she accepted the rose to be polite,IMHO. However, questioning a woman and making an issue of the incident, makes you seem insecure, jealous and possessive. You also likely made her feel bad about it even though she did the right thing.

    You probably lost major points with her and made yourself look bad/undesirable in the process. It also sounds like you come off as needy to her.

    It's best to not worry about such minor things and to show confidence. It's best to be independent and not question her as well unless you witnessed something serious. It makes it seem like you don't trust her otherwise. You dropped bad vibes all over her.

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