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My boyfriend lied and cheated?
I am 18 and my boyfriend turned out to be lying to me ( about a lot of things) and cheating on m with my best friend.. He says he really loves me but like my aunt told me love is an action word not just a feeling. I can't help but wonder if somethings wrong with me and I'm just unlovable? I really love him and I know it seems pathetic but I just want someone to love who loves me in return so badly. Is their something wrong with me? Am I unlovable? and do you think I'm ugly- maybe thats why he cheated?
here is a link to a pic of me.
ttp://i1069.photobucket.com/albums/u46
http://i1069.photobucket.com/albums/u463/evangelin...
here is the link again the other one doesnt work
9 Answers
- ?Lv 79 years agoFavorite Answer
I'm not looking at your picture to validate your feelings.
You are too immature to really understand love as well. Being loved its so much more than what you look like.
Boys at this age (a lot of them) just don't give a crap about anyone else but themselves. Its not you, its HIS selfishness.
I cannot imagine the pain you are in. Your best friend and your boyfriend? Goodness. I'm so sorry. I hope you realize this boy is full of crap. He does not love you because he is too selfish to love anyone. Its not you. Its HIS problem.
Please talk to someone about this. An adult or counselor... You need someone to help you sort out your feelings.
- BrittyLv 79 years ago
Sorry your link doesn't work but I doubt you're ugly or unlovable. I think you just ended up with the wrong person and he turned out to be a complete jerk. You're better off without him. Ditch him and let him realize the mistake that he made. Don't take him back no matter how much he begs or tries to "prove that he's changed". Your aunt is right; love is also an action.
I was cheated on by two different guys and it made me feel ugly and unlovable until someone came into my life and proved that I was lovable and made me feel beautiful.
I think you need to meet the right guy and you will be able to see just how lovable you are. You deserve it :)
- 9 years ago
I think its safe to say that you are feeling insecure because he cheated and lied to you. Infidelity is one of those elements in life that makes the wrong person feel bad. You didn't do anything wrong but you will if you do not walk away from this relationship. Do not become another female clinging to their boyfriend who has no respect. Another great idea - cut ties with your "best friend" too. This is another tumultuous relationship that needs to go.
Take the pictures down. No matter what you look like - you don't deserve to be treated like this by anyone. Do yourself a favor - stand up for yourself, walk away and then invest in yourself emotionally. I'm not saying it will be easy - I'm just saying you're worth it!
Source(s): Been there - done that! - 9 years ago
OK you are not ugly I just think that he is just rood for doing that to you because if he really love you that much and cared that much about you then he wouldn't have cheated on you I would say dump him because honestly in the end I am for sure you will find someone that will treat you right and not cheat on you.
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- 9 years ago
People cheat because they ae idiots and do not know what they have until they mess it up. I've been cheated on by someone I thought who loved me. It hurts, but we all go through it. Move on. It takes time, but you are young and not ugly girrl or unlovable!
- Anonymous9 years ago
You don't need people to look at your picture. You should look in the mirror and know that you're beautiful. Sounds like you need a confidence boost, not a boyfriend. Ditch the guy, and concentrate on you! Love yourself first, then you will find a guy who loves you also..
- Anonymous9 years ago
Can't look at pic, but I know you are feeling this way cause of what he did. Lose him and find a guy that can respect you for who you are. You are emotionally hurting yourself because of HIS actions. don't let him bring you down. There are a lots of guys that don't cheat.
- xKLv 79 years ago
The only thing wrong with you is you dated the wrong guy. Move on, and stop assuming it's your fault.