My boyfriend lied and cheated?

Hehehehehehehe.....who cares......

You've just given 768,342+ of your new "friends" a reason to grab the Johnson's Baby Oil and the Kleenex.....and take aim for.....well....you probably get it.....

Aren't you glad you asked this stoooopid sh!t on the "Group W" bench now....??

Oh man, why do you feel like that? Over a guy? Really? You are a very pretty girl. By the way, your bestie is a bi-tch. Stay away from her, ignore her, she'll get the point.

You are 18 you say huh? Well, honey the way you look, you can catch any guy you want. I am sure there are a lot of good looking and intelligent guys in your college, if you are in college that is.

Love is blind sometimes, I was in one as well. It's wrong that he cheated on you with your best friend. That's just plain low.

One thing that upsets me is that girls get cheated and they cry their heart out, but when guys get cheated, they get even by going out with other girls and having a night out with the boys. My assumption is only from the guys and girls I had seen growing up, not necessarily all types.

But, hey your aunt is a genius!!! She is a smart aunt for sure. Listen to her. You are not unlovable. You are beautiful.

My advice enjoy your life to the fullest, you are 18, 4 years later you'll have a Bachelors degree of your choice and work for a company where you'll make a lot of money. By that time, your EX-bf will wonder that he had made a huge mistake and your bestie will feel jealous.

No dear, this guy is not good for you. There is nothing wrong with you. Those are his problems, not yours. When a guy/girl like someone they don't cheat or lie. They are nice, courteous and lovable. Men don't cheat on women because they are ugly etc. That's the way they are because girls aloud them to do that and for other reasons, they way they were brought up, what they saw his father did to her mother.etc. You don't have to be pretty, I don't think you are ugly so stop putting yourself down. Don't believe what guys say, words are gone with wind, put attention to their action. You sound sore of desperate. Relax the right guy will love you the way you are. Not all guys or girls are looking for the same thing. Maybe this guy is not suppose to be for you even if you love him. He will probably make you miscible who knows. Sorry I couldn't see the link because is black but it doesn't make a any difference. God knows what is good for you, trust the higher power. Why would you like a guy that cheated and lie to you?

You are certainly not ugly nor could you be unlovable. The key is finding a guy who appreciates having your love and knows how to return it. You made a poor choice this time but don't let that keep you from trying again. Most people have loved and lost but the vast majority kept trying until their found their ideal mate. Don't give up on yourself and don't sell yourself short. Be the best person you can be and you'll be just fine. Good luck!

Your very pretty, don't worry about that. But if you want someone to actually 'love you' and not 'lust for you' they need to fall in love with your soul, not your looks.

Plus, he can't love you if he has been cheating and lying. Get rid, people like that are not worth your time, and break it off with your best friend, that's so wrong.

I can understand your want to be loved, its human nature, but all the love in the world is not worth it if it comes with the cost of dishonesty and disloyalty.

You'll find the right guy, it may just take a little longer then you would like.

ok, first of all, the fact that you included a picture of you, makes me think that you want us to answer if there is something wrong with you, solely based on your appearance.

Have you considered that if there is something wrong with you, it might be other than how you look? maybe you're a nag, or smell funny, or who knows.

My point being, how the hell are we supposed to know what you did to motivate your BF to cheat? I mean are you that stupid, we don't know you, we don't know what you're like. From this question I have to assume you're really dumb, have you considered he got tired of your numbnuts?

Or, maybe it had nothing to do with you? have you even considered that? maybe he found someone he likes better physically or otherwise? maybe someone who doesn't go to complete strangers on the internet for advise.

Or maybe he is just a lying, cheating, scumbag. Have you considered the possibility that he was just a bad person, and you didn't really knew him?

There is no way we can know, maybe you should ask him? or maybe you should just move on. there is no point in losing sleep over a lying cheating bastard, whatever reasons he had, it is wrong to lie and cheat.

I do think you're ugly by the way.

You are a beautiful young woman and that guy does not deserve you at all. If he says that he really loves you, he wouldn't do these things to you. You are not unlovable, and you are totally normal for wanting someone to love that loves you back. The right guy will come soon, and you will know it because he will treat you like the beautiful young woman you are.

It's not your fault he cheated. Sounds like a dirt bag who doesn't care about other peoples feelings- http://www.thesignsofcheating.com/articles/a-cheat...

You're good looking, you just need to wait it out until you find someone who loves you for you and doesn't cheat on your (with your best friend no less!)

First off your 18 and their is over 7 billion people on this planet, It may suck now but you will get over it. If you let the douche bag get away with it now he'll keep doing it and it will only get worse. Get out see the world and you will find someone who is go to you and for you.

Dont ever feel or think that you are ugly. I am going through a similar thing as well. There is nothing wrong with you and you cannot help who you love.. Trust me I know. I hope this helps and if u need to talk to someone just email me at ambermarks@ymail.com

Please check out my open question as well.

Thanks.

You are lovable. First of all, you are quite pretty -- if I was your age and single, I'd be trying to date you. Second, don't take his actions as proof of anything other thant that *he* is a jerk. I know I don't know him, but any guy who isn't a jerk would have at least talked to you about what was happening -- he wouldn't just lie and cheat.