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Not having sex normal?

I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 18, we've been together over a year and my question is he saving sex until the time comes? I honestly don't care for it but it just seems like most guys in my generation force sex upon the relationship and he hasn't. We've talked about it but it doesn't seem to bother us not doing it.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Atleast you know he's into you and doesnt just want sex.

  • 9 years ago

    Maybe he is giving impetus to the general belief - sex after marriage. Though there are professors of sex at your ages, I feel it is slightly premature to have complete sex at your age. sex restraint is good for both of you till the feeling takes the better of you and that would be the right time for sex. Wait and the sex day would also not be far.

    Source(s): own
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    ive been with my partner for 6 weeks we have sex once a week we prefer to strengthen our bond through fore play,massage,being there for each other cuddle on the sofa and talking in my opinion a relationship built on sex isnt much of a relationship,at least you know hes with you because he loves you.

    Source(s): life
  • 9 years ago

    Listen you guys are both still young. (KIDS) If I may. Im a 30 r old guy. Ive literally " BEEN THERE DONE THAT"!. I think that if neither one of you are ready. Then you should leave it be. STAY YOUNG 4-EVER

    Source(s): just a guy
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  • Jacko
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Well, it must bother YOU, or you wouldn't be asking us, would you.

    Just be prepared to accept the fact that for as long as you are with this guy, this is how it's going to be.

    If you're happy with that.........fine.

  • 9 years ago

    He's probably just trying to be a gentlemen and let you make a move when your ready

  • 9 years ago

    Maybe he is asexual just like you. A perfect match.

  • 9 years ago

    sure, if you say so. I'm serious. You are normal everyone else is weird, remember that.

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