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I feel responsible for her getting pregnant. What should I do?

It was our senior year of high school. We had liked each other for 3 years, but never went out. She had a hard time with her family and ex-boyfriends, but she was smart and beautiful. We got close towards the end of the year and she ended up asking me to take her to prom. I was too scared to say yes and she ended up going with her boyfriend.

I just found out that she got pregnant on prom night which meant that she couldn't go to the college she had always wanted because of the baby.

I know she is responsible for what happened but I can't help but feel that if I had gone to prom with her she wouldn't have gotten pregnant.

Her boyfriend isn't the best guy in the world. But I think her family problems had something to do with her liking him.

There is a chance of me going pass Detroit(where she moved to) next summer, so I'm thinking of stopping by and talking to her then.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You shouldn't do anything. She is responsible for her own decisions, and I don't buy your guilt. To me it sounds like you want an excuse to prey on a girl you think might be vulnerable. Leave her alone and move on.

  • 9 years ago

    It wasn't your fault she made the choice to have sex and then made the choice to go through with the pregnancy. She should have had an abortion if she didn't want to mess up her future or at least used protection.

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    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Yes!!! Talk to her. She was responsible (just saying) but seriously? Do what you want. Go ahead :) help me out?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Don't talk to her just like her.

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