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How to stop a boy from sexting you?

I find him really nice to talk to in person and we have known each other for 3 years, but live about three hours away. He keeps texting dirty and I like the idea of it and i replied to him at the beginning, but now i feel like he is going to far and i feel really uncomfortable. Also he is my cousins best friend and if he found out he wouldn't be happy. But i do like him and i dont want to stop texting him altogether, why can't he be more romantic as opposed to sexual? Thank you

Update:

Thank you to all your supportive messages. But @Ramon C I am 18 not 12, and who honestly gives a crap if I have not apostrophised to your liking, how the hell are you a 'top contributor' when you talk to people in that way.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You just have to tell him directly how you feel about it, and that you feel uncomfortable with him doing this.

    If he is reasonably and respects you he will probably stop doing it, but if not then he's probably not worth your time.

    As to why he's doing it...Its hard to say but since you accepted it the first time he did it he might see you in a sexual way now, and this is why he is doing it more often than he used to.

    Good luck~

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I'm with you here I absolutely hate it when lads go all creepy on you over text messages and social media websites. My pet hate line is ''Send me a pic?'' (I usually send them a picture of my big toe to wind them up, that's all they get)

    I prefer a potential BF to act as a friend and let me come to them no pressure, the only way a boy can know this is by me telling them that, so just be honest because this guy can't read your mind, tell him your uncomfortable with the whole 'sexting' thing, if he doesn't understand then he's not worth talking to

  • 9 years ago

    Haven you learned? Most Guys are dirty minded and at a young age just want sex. Well I would say talk to him about it to stop or just stop texting. I'm sure glad I'm not like that anymore lol I'd figure I rather have someone who I can love an grow old with.

  • Nicole
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    Just ask him as nicely as possible to keep it romantic and make sure he understands that you still wanna text him just not like that.

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  • Grassy
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    It is very simple.

    Just tell your cousin he is bothering you. Have your cousin tell him to stop it. Have your cousin tell him about that last (fictitious) person that did not stop harassing you. How you had him arrested for stalking.

    Hugs

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    tell him about it :) just say how you feel or make it work so you could go out with him , mention too him that you dont want him to be like and it dosnt impresse you sorry my spellings ****

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Stop replying.

  • 9 years ago

    ask him why hes sending you the pictures. once you understand his intentions, tell him you're not comfortable with this.

  • 9 years ago

    tell him to stop being a stalker

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