Does it seem like he did Cheat?

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Ok so here's the story, My boyfriend and I are together just over a year, we also work together, he is a supervisor and I am a sales assistant, around May this year he had to transfer to another store temporarily to fill in for a manager who was sick, and in that time he told me that a female supervisor was flirting with him and trying to get him to go out with her, now he told me that himself straight away when it started happening so that I knew the truth but he says he didn't do anything with her he said he told her to stay well away, but then a girl from that store came to ours and started telling people that they had gone out and of course it got back to me, and I saw very little of him for the month he was there, we normally see each other every other day but he said he was too busy with work, when I asked him about what this girl was telling people he swore that it was all lies and I chose to believe him and not let rumors get in the way and destroy our trust in one another, now he's back in our store now since June but just today he came up to me in work and said that the girl who was flirting with him has started a rumor that he (my boyfriend) and her have slept together, he found out about the rumor from our store manager who is married to this girls store manager, she told him about it so he told my boyfriend the rumor was being made by this girl,

my boyfriend came straight to me to tell me in case it got back to me and he says nothing happened, but if nothing did happen then why would she start saying she slept with him after all these months? nothings been the same with me and my boyfriend since he went to the other store all we do is fight, now that he has come back we fight even more and he accuses me of cheating every time something comes up about this girl it's as if he's trying to take the problem away from him and make it me who is at fault, even though he knows I've never cheated, should I believe him? I just don't know why she would say it all again after all this time? What should I do? Should I believe he is being truthful?

Aisha · Accepted Answer

dude the answer was in your writing. she is trying to make you and your boyfriend break up and then she can have him and i don't think so and tell her to back off and tell your boyfriend how you feel about this but she is trying to make you and your boyfriend break up

Sarah · Answer

From expierence, when a guy accuses you of cheating, when you have not given him a reason to, usually that means that he is. I have been almost in the same situation as you, and after all the rumors and drama i broke up with him. A few months later he addmitted that he was having sex with multiple girls, and he had another girl friend while he was dating me. i had dated him for a year and I lost my virginity to him.  I wish I would have listened to what other people have said.

R · Answer

this is typical reverse psychology YES HE DID CHEAT ON YOU its so obvious and he is trying to make you feel guilty for suspecting him this happens so often and women are suckers for it but lets be honest you obviously know in your heart he has cheated but you still dont want to believe so despite what anyone tells you here unless you see with your own eyes as the saying goes your not going to dump him and mabe not even then

Anonymous · Answer

because he did. if he was distant for a month do the math. how do i know cause it got done to me.

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Does it seem like he did Cheat?

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