Girlfriend is mad a me?

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Hi Guys,

Well my girlfriend has a terrible car but it till runs. We work near each other about 5 mins drive away from my office to hers. So I have been taking her to work and staying at her apartment. I was recently laid off from that job and still took her to work everyday that I didnt have to be at school so 3 out of the five days of the week. For about a month I was applying to jobs online and got a couple interviews but nothing ever panned out. My last employer that laid me off called me and wanted to rehire me. However I could only work 20 hours a week and make minimum wage. But a job is a job and i needed money. But I still have been applying to jobs everywhere to try and get another decent paying job. However my girlfriend is mad at me because if I got a different job and she would have to drive herself to work in the morning with her car or have me take her early in the morning before her job starts so I could get to work on time. She has told me that I have to get a job that works for both of our schedules (in the same area and same time as her job) or she wants to break up with me. I told her I was going to take any decent job I could get no matter what time or place and we would have to work out how she was going to get to work and that she should try to limit me since it so hard to find a job. But she is very angry at me am I wrong for saying that or is she not being rational.

puop · Answer

oh geez, I believe that is what's called over reacting! That is such a stupid reason to break up with someone. I think you might have some other issues going on between you? You might wanna solve those first. Sometimes girls just get mad at irrational things because they're angry about other stuff. 
And if she is serious about that, just dump her before she dumps you. You definitely deserve better. Believe me, I've been in a long distance relationship for 3 years now- like two different countries long distance. And there are so many things that you put up with for someone that you truly love and care about, not getting dropped at work is not an excuse to get even slightly mad!!
Find someone who is independent enough, but also finds room in her life for you.

tutt · Answer

though you had sturdy intentions you possibly could of in simple terms tried to communicate her into doing them quite of truthfully pinning her all the way down to pressure her. I understand you're possibly in contact yet you won't be able to eliminate someones loose will. perhaps you would possibly want to seem up her condition no matter if or not it is an eye fixed an infection or maybe with and study what's going to take position if she doesn't take them and educate her the way it receives worse (if it really is the case). Eye infections that get intense may reason blindness. in simple terms educate your concerns including her and enable her recognize your sorry and could not pressure her yet your in simple terms scared for her.

Gabriela · Answer

No your not wrong :p she's just being a big baby :p give her rough sex and slap her ;) and then finger her and tell her she ain't goin anywhere ;) haha lol jk jk but just have a talk with her and Ask her why would she break up with you for such a stupid reason :/ hope I helped

? · Answer

well something tells me she's using you.
She should support you in getting a job no matter what or where.
Not one that bennifets only her.

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