Feeling like a fifth wheel...?

The smartest thing you said was, "I know I have time." If you are perfectly

content, then that's what you should continue to do. If you aren't anxious to

get into a relationship, you are more likely to find one that's well suited for you.

It will be worth the wait.

Probabilities are that the conversations between your hubby and ex revolve across the children, and truthfully, you don't have got to be in these conversations. Being a step-dad or mum may also be irritating routinely, on account that you're expected to do all of the giving, like losing off/deciding on up/feeding/exciting/laundry/ and so forth. And so forth. And so on...But with regards to selections, your input is most likely now not wanted. I know, been there, carried out that, and nonetheless do. They have two father and mother who're the choice makers, it is not your job, and you are practically sticking your nostril the place it is not wanted. Apart from, this concern is all new. Attempt to domesticate your possess relationship with the ex. Speak stupid stuff together with her, allure her like you would any acquaintance with whom you want to set up a connection. My hubby's ex sometimes will speak to me about parenting disorders with the children, and i will provide anything insight I would have, and with hubby too, but i have learned to tread calmly and be inventive with how I propose strategies.