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How do I handle this friend situation?

This past weekend, I went to a fright fest with a friend. I took many pictures and I want to post them on Facebook. However, there is a second friend who wanted to do a separate fright fest trip and that fell through. I thought about inviting her to the fright fest trip that DID occur but because she is very unreliable, I felt like she wouldn't commit, so I didn't tell her about it. Now I know there's going to be trouble when I post these pictures. What should I do? Any advice would be great everyone!

Update:

I should add that I have made many plans with the second friend (the one who didn't go to the fright fest) and she either didn't follow through or kept me waiting until the very last minute. Hence why she wasn't on the trip.

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  • 9 years ago

    I think you already answered your own question. Post the photos. If she has a problem with it, tell her what you just shared here- that you didn't invite her because she has been non-commital in the past or not come through. If the truth pisses her off- then that is her problem and NOT yours. It is great having self respect and boundaries and it seems that you have exercised both of those in this situation. Good for you!! At the very least, you know that although people may not always like you- at least they will RESPECT you! Bravo!

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