I am in terrible emotional pain....plzzz help?

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hi there, plz listen to my problem and tell me what to do, i am a 25 years old guy and there is this 22 years old girl i know and we went out a few times and i like her and one day i introduced her to my 17 years old cousin and so...the three of us all started to hang out and have fun and....i told her that i like her but unfortunately....she said she doesn't feel any connection with me and she just likes me as a friend but....this is not the real problem, the real problem is that she told me that she likes my 17 years old cousin and she is dating him now....i really got heart broken and cried alot...what drives me crazy is that how can she date a guy younger than her by 5 years??? me and her are close in age but she rejected me and took my cousin who is 5 years younger than her, i regret the moment that i introduced my cousin to her, now i feel pain everyday and can't stand that she and my cousin are dating while iam left all alone

MariC38 · Accepted Answer

I am sorry to hear this :/ I think that you should try to forget about her in that way and be happy for your cousin. They probably wont last anyways because that is a significant age difference. 

Just think about it, wouldnt you rather have a gf who's wanted you from the beginning, who loves you for all that you are, not someone you had to convince to like you? You'll find someone else who cares about you as much as you care about her. I know it's hard right now, but it'll get better, just try and stay positive

Ann · Answer

You are NOT alone. You are just between girlfriends!  This is going to happen several times before you find your life partner, so how you handle the situation is up to you.  She was not into you. It doesn't matter if she is into your cousin, she was never going to be with you long term.  Dust yourself off and get back out there.  Time's a wasting!

R.AL · Answer

I felt the same when someone left me for someone else... 
You kinda question "why not me"..."what's wrong with me?". And at times i feel doubtful about who i am, and at times i feel that i might just not be good enough.
But the truth that i haven't still been able to digest is "that i am a great person" it's just i have to be patient.

Don't doubt yourself at times like these, just try and accept the fact that sometimes people see the world quite differently and we have to accept fate as it comes and goes.

Trenon · Answer

just smoke weed itll make you feel better and then you wont care about what happened and you can go back out there and find someone else

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I am in terrible emotional pain....plzzz help?

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