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Do you think he has lost interest in me?
Okay so I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year and the last while I've felt like he is not interested in being with me, we went away for a short break last week and during sex he just randomly stopped and said "I need my phone" he didn't say why, He just lay there using his phone, doing what with it I don't know, I couldn't see it, then 2 nights ago we went to see Skyfall (brilliant movie by the way) and usually we are chatty before the film starts but not once did he talk to me and then yesterday I asked if he wanted to come over to my house later (as in last night) and he said "only if you want me to and that's all i'm saying on the matter" and i told him he didn't have to come up if he didn't want to but he just text back saying "be ready" and that was it, when he got here he didn't say hello when I opened the door he just walked straight in and sat down and didn't talk to me at all the whole time, and he just fell off to sleep, then when he was leaving he just walked out the door, I really don't think he is interested anymore.
He has been acting like he doesn't care if we spend time together or not, he makes no effort to make plans with me anymore and this morning I asked him what was wrong and he just said "I don't want to be near your house anymore"
Do you think the behavior runs deeper that somethings wrong or does it look like he isn't interested, I'm even at a point where I think he has met someone else
Any advice and help is greatly appreciated
4 Answers
- JillLv 59 years agoFavorite Answer
If you have been going out for a year and this behaviour has just started something is definately going on. It certainly seems that he is not prepared or unable to talk to you at all. Maybe you need to let him know that you are there for him to listen and support him if there is anything you can do. I wouldnt be saying to him to talk to you.. remember guys are not so good at talking about problems as they have a need to withdraw and try and solve or come up with a solution to a problem. So don't problem solve for him...If you share friends are you not able to have a private word to one of his friends and or do you have contact with his parents maybe you could mention to his mum you are concerned about him. I would withdraw a little youself and let him come to you, if this is about him currently where he is in the relationship... its kinda a tough one and must be hard for you... good luck
- 9 years ago
Sounds like he might have met someone else. Try acting the same as he is acting towards u and see how he reacts. If he asked why ur acting the way u are simply say ur acting like he does.
- 9 years ago
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