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Would it be so wrong to have one last fling before marriage?

An ex girlfriend, who is married, texted me wanting to get together for lunch. I haven't seen her for a few years. I have a very strong physical attraction to her that my fiancée can't fulfill. I'm getting older and don't anticipate having good sex on down the road. I love my fiancée with all my heart but can't stop thinking of the great sex I could have one more time. So would it be so bad to have one last fling before I get married? I think I'm hoping for someone to convince me it's not.

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    You shouldn't be engaged if you are thinking like this.. :/ I mean I'm just a kid, but still. ~Grimmy~

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    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    It's messed up because you're engaged. It would be considered cheating and you don't even sound like you love your fiancee or even want to get married to her the way you're talking about this other girl. End your engagement if you want the other woman.

  • 9 years ago

    Hey if your wife is fine with it! I sure as ell would ;) if you don't really liv your wife (that's what it sounds like) you should t be gettin married.

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