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Am I the only one who thinks this?

I'm a picky guy when it comes to dating, i have a big ego, and it leads me to believe i am perfect which i know i'm not, but then shy at the same time like i dont know how to have a conversation with people. i believe that those 1 week relationships are crap and a waste of time. i am only interested in long term relationships, and everyone like my friends and family is worried about me for it. they think because i dont have any social skills, and my ego will cause me to be alone for the rest of my life or i will or am gay when im not. I just want to know if i am weird for only wanting long term relationships and only looking for girls who want the same thing, and if i need to lower my ego of expecting nothing but the best for me.

Update:

btw i am a junior in high school, and my parents say your suppose to have alot of relationships in high school even though i havent had one... idk i am just a really shy person.. i dont think its wrong for wanting the best for me because there are just some girls that like me and i just think i could do better, (thats what i mean about the ego thing). and then the girls i like i feel as if they will shoot me down, because they believe they can do better.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I've actually never dated before because i also think those short relationships are dumb and a waste of time and energy ^^ I'm also interested only in long term! It's not good to have too big of an ego though.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    there called 'Acting skills" I do this a lot. When Im on a date withing abour 20 mins I know if he is or isnt my type and if he isnt Im just on auto pilihgt. Lets be honest here if you arent interested you arnt interestd na meen?No you arent weird but when they are with the wrong guy WOO they can get even longer, realy Im in a longterm relationship pretty dam boring and I fell out of love wish i was single i would be jugglin them boys

  • 9 years ago

    just don't let your ego get u out of a relationship. i think it's good u want a long term relationship.

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