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Who is in the wrong? Me or my girlfriend?
Tuesday is my birthday and me an i family will be going out for a meal at around 5:30. My girlfriend who has dance on monday, tuesday wednesday and sunday has said she will come (i invited her of course). However on tuesday this dance thing finishes at 8:30pm, my girlfriend has said she will finish at 6:15pm. I have constantly tried to tell her it isnt good enough and as it is my birthday she should just leave it. She is refusing to do this because she has a competition on saturday and pays monthly to do it. What should i do!!
Dancing is a hobby not a career. Also a compromise is not good enough for a birthday. She says she is desperate to go but why should my whole family have to wait another hour for her. Its not actually her that pays for it.
7 Answers
- R.Lv 49 years agoFavorite Answer
she's leaving it early for you! if she's paying for it then i think this is a fair compromise.
- Anonymous9 years ago
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- Anonymous9 years ago
Well I think since it's your birthday she should be able to take ONE day out of her dance lessons to go out with you and your family. I know she pays for it monthly, but it sounds like she goes a lot of times a week so I think she could afford to miss one day. But if she didn't want to you shouldn't push her to go with you guys. But if you meant a lot to her she should be able to go with you. Good luck!
- Anonymous9 years ago
Tells you one thing ~ where you stand in the pecking order.
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- 9 years ago
I think you do have a right to be upset, but I also understand that the position she is in is tough. She doesnt want to let down her fellow dancers and she doesnt want to let you down either. I'd ask her to meet you for dessert after dinner, then maybe you guys can do something more to celebrate your birthday later in the week.
- 9 years ago
She should leave early, tell her its only 45 minutes and she can practice at home and you'll watch her and tell her how you think shes doing - that way shes supporting your birthday but also you're supporting and appriciating her dancing.
- Anonymous9 years ago
meh you are in the wrong. If she is paying for it and this is something she wants to persue as a career then you need to get over it because you air arnt paying her way through life so she isnt entitled to you
