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HELP WITH RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS... PLEASE! TEN POINTS...!?

okay so my boyfriend is controlling. he likes to tell me I cant talk to my guy friends because there guys and other things like that.He is addicted to drugs and doesnt see it as a big deal. He's called me a piece of **** and always breaks up with me, and gets back together with me, and he seems like he does it because he likes to mess with my head. he doesnt seem to care unless I can get him drugs.. or money. whenever we fight he always smiles and laughs in my face.. I just dont know what to do. I love him to death but it's very emotionally stressful. there's another one of my guy friends that recently told me he had feelings for me after I've known him for 10+ years. he wants to be with me, and I just dont know what to do. should I be with me bf or leave him? I need advice... thanks.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Honestly, I would break up with him for good. Be his friend, but love stops for hin when he is mentally abusing and or physically and emotionally. He needs to respect you. He does these things cause he knows you'll take him back. If you break up with him it'll either be a reality check that he doesn't own you or he wont care. Best of luck and be safe!

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You're asking this, but you don't care for opinions. You just want someone to tell you what you want to hear. But you need to listen, even though you think no one understands. Break up with him. Go to the other guy. You'll feel safer with him.

  • 9 years ago

    Dump the ashole!! He doesn't care about you, I know that's hard to hear, but he's taking advantage of you. Your best fiend, you know legit cares. He wouldn't hurt you, but your hurting him by being in that type of abusive relationship. Go with someone who cares, your better than that. Good luck girl. Can you help me with mine?

  • Evey
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    i think that you should leave him.. he causes you too much stress and he is only using you..,there is somebody out there that will love you and treat you like the queen that you are.

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