how can u cure heartbreak...?

i'm really sorry and i know it's going to hurt your heart to hear this but there really is no specific way. the best thing to do is go and be selfish right now. don't try to get people to pity you,dont tell them your story and all that because it's only going to make you hurt more thinking about it. try and preoccupy yourself ,really take this time to be with your friends and enjoy every minute of it. don't go out and try to see if you can find a new person because it's really not going to make you feel any better. at the same time don't keep it all into yourself because it's going to drive you crazy-it's okay to cry about it,it'll make you feel better but don't try and go back to this person because i promise you i have gone through every single kind of heart break and going back to them and trying to see if you can fix things-it doesn't help.

We have all had our hearts broken some where along the line. No its not easy and who says it is?? I found that if I just kept myself busy with activities and such that as time passed I slowly started getting over him. Then when I least expected it I met a man out of the blue that just totally blew me away. I started dating him and a year later we married. We were married 20 years. I just lost him to cancer not long ago. but the point here is that even though you have a broken heart you will find that love is every where around you. That's really what we all want right? Is just to be loved. so even though it is hard for you right now, just hold your head up and continue on with your life. Don' look for another love right now, just go on about your life and slowly but surely you will see that there are other things that matter too. And then when you least expect it.....BOOM you will meet another! I promise!

I have no idea . its 4 months now in my 10 year break up and I am making it so bad for myself cause she keeps texting me wanting me back and I keep playing along acting like I am just fine

She cheated twice and I can't forgive her

And I tell u I was not that perfect but I never tried to ever make her hurt in any way

When she was upset it tore me apart

I think I was more a doormat than anything

I like reading everyone stories because it does help knowing that there are people out there with the same problems

And I'm not alone

G luck

I've had my heartbroken, too. I hate to say this, but there is not much to do. I don't know what you've tried, but for me, I just got out, had some fun, and met some new people. It doesn't make it go away but it helps forget for awhile. I am truly sorry ):. I know how sucky that it.

time is a healer i am afaraid everyone has been there I was in a 7 year reltionship was with him from age 16-23 we broke up 18months ago and it hurt like mad and we have a son together so atleast you aint got that to worry about. take time out for friends and family take up new hobbies try new experiences to keep your mind occupied and in time it will get easier. I got told this advice last year and I dint beleive it but 18 months on and I am realy happy you will to beleive me

Whatever you do dont fall into a 'rebound relationship' that just ends up hurting you more, reminding everything that reminds you of them sometimes works but in my experience it doesnt, everyone coaps differenty but what i do (im a guy) is just surround myself with loads of friends and people that love me

Hope ive helped

i am in the same position as you dude..only the person who broke your heart can cure it..if you find someone(opposite sex) who likes you and makes you laugh, then slowly your times will change.

Instead of confiding in guys, confide in Jesus.