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Am I the problem or they?
Recently most of my BEST friends who I had complete trust in have started drinking and smoking a little. They also like to poke fun at people and that bothers me too, but normally I don't say anything.
Anyway recently we have gotten into a lot of arguments about this, I get mad when they hide it from me. I also get mad when they tell me. All i do is worry about them.. Im also sick and tired of arguing. This has been going on for mabey 4-5months..
So now my question, am I the problem? Am I expecting to much from them? I am always sad and worries for them. I love them all so much but i Canr deal with this, they have lost a lot of my respect. Please tell me what to do. (were juniors in hs) thanks!
4 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
They're the problem. Don't hang out with them.
- 8 years ago
No you're not the problem. Perhaps they are a little agitated because they think of you as a person who worries too much. I think that you have the right to be worried. I would be all of those things are terrible and can lead to death. Keep a watchful eye on them and try to get them to stop. If you're wondering, you wouldn't be a tattle tale because you are only protecting yourself because others on the influence of those things can hurt you, others, or themselves. Nobody should put your safety at risk. How good of friends are they? Even if they are mad later in life they'll thank you.
- 8 years ago
Tell them how you feel and how you constantly worry about them , they will stop ( or at least reduce ) these bad habits
- Anonymous8 years ago
you're not the problem
