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am i too nice of a guy or what?

so i don't have a problem dating women, but recently I've noticed a couple of my friends that are women sorta think of me as a brother. now don't get me wrong i don't mind being a good friend but when they come to me with guy problems i am like wtf o.O so when or how did this happen when did they stop looking at me as a bf material ???? i hit on them its obvious, but im also a very nice guy if someone is sad i tend to be the one to lift them up. and no im not ugly my last gf was a solid 9, so what could it be. am i really just too nice?

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  • 8 years ago

    I hear you loud and clear brother. I tend to have that happen to me as well. I find that there is no such thing as "too nice", In my opinion it's all about the girls you have your sights on. If they're genuine people, they'll appreciate your kindness and sincerity. If not, then you're better off without them in your love life.

  • 8 years ago

    they are your friends just because they come to you with problems doesnt mean they dont also have slight feelings for you. if you really want to get with one of them you need to tell them how you feel.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You said they are FRIENDS.. so go find someone to date. Can you stop be so nice and egotistical to realize they dont feel it for ya>? Go find someone who does!

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You need to be more mysterious...be more stand offish...you are too nice...let them come to you...dont hit on them, back up and let them hit on you

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