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Poll for relationship people:?

Do you think about, lust for, fantasize about people other than your partner?

Do you consider this cheating/does it make you feel bad?

Are there special contingencies that make it okay? I.E. celebrities you'll never actually get anyways...

I strongly believe that all of this is bad for a healthy relationship. That while we may have 'stray thoughts' from time to time, it is our duty to renounce temptation and redirect our thoughts to where they belong.

In so doing we find greater trust, stronger intimacy, and more satisfying partnership.

But I want to know how other people look at things. How do you think it affects your lives? It is not my intention to judge you, live as you deem fit for you. Thank you for your thoughts.

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  • 8 years ago
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    Personally, I do fantasize about other guys but most are famous or guys I don't have a chance with. I know my boyfriend doesn't mind because he does it too. I would rather know my boyfriend fantasizes about girls then have to just assume. It builds trust so that you guys can tell each other things and not be afraid to.

  • 8 years ago

    well usually i fantasized about my ex when i was in a relationship. and after... and i'm pretty sure he did the same. but i don't know if he fantasized anybody else too. i'm sure he remember our sex very very well lol

    please answer mine?

    http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201...

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