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Does we breaking family ties when we convert to islam ?

I got hindu/ indian boyfriend. He always talking about married. I'm muslim girl but he don't want to convert to Islam. Then he just say want to suicide because he say that the only best way. Then he say that his family member and friends think when someone convert to Islam, will be breaking family ties?Is that true?

please. I need more answer with more detail in this case. By the way, how can I persuade him to convert to Islam and persuade his family and friends too to tell the truth ?

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  • M S
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
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    Salam alikum

    he is putting pressure on you to get into your bed without Reverting back to Islam [his state when he was born]

    let him talk to me

  • 8 years ago

    muslim girls...... the only way u see the situation is either be muslim or no way. You're not going to accept him as a hindu, and muslim girls see no other way. Islamic rules can really suck in love situations.

    I was in love with a muslim girl for 5 years!!!! and im athiest, I loved her with all my heart and we had plans to marry each other, my family accepted her, but hers did not and Islam did not allow us to be together, and I was really close converting to Islam,but chose not to because NO-ONE should ever change themselves to be with someone.

    You either have to try and tell your parents that you're dating a hindu and see the reaction, if they go crazy and reject, then you can't be upset. You're muslim, its in your religion to follow the islamic marriage laws. You cant change your boyfriend because "YOU" want him to, you're being selfish. You're most likely in the end have a really bad heart-break, but its what most muslims want.

    Muslims believe that their destined to be with a muslim partner and that a muslim person is the only perfect love for each-other, but when in reality it takes more than just the same religion to make two people love each other.

    Try and see if there is even any chance from your parents at least you'll know, or else let him free and let him find another girl that doesn't need him to change.

    I hope you guys all the luck

    Source(s): Expierenced same situation
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I am not going to say anything more than what has already been said. Do you really love him? If so why do you want him to convert him to your religion. You do not force something on your loved ones. I respect the guy. He loves you and so allows you to carry on in your faith. He does not ask you to convert to a Hindu. But why do you force him? And to top it all you want to PERSUADE his family and friends to convert too. That is most disgusting of you. Pleas leave the poor guy alone.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    True Quran not given to Muslim? Muhammad was a Hindu?: 1. Deity- Moon God, 2. Temple – Kaaba Siva, 3. Black stone – Tiny Siva, 4. Touching and kissing Siva, 5. Pilgrimages Haj and Umra, 6. Shaving the heads, 7. Circumambulating temple Kaabah 7 times, 8. Drinking holy water zam zam, 9. Wearing White seamless cloth, 10. Stoning Satan. But if you do not believe you will go to Allah alone for hell fire.

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  • 8 years ago

    I should ask you one question, whom you love? The guy / converted guy?

    If you really love a guy then where is question of convershion. We seen family where husband is "Hindu" and Wife is "Muslim" and leaving peacefully in society. If you think you can not live at your place then move to another place.

    Also what I observed the question is from your side of conversion, do't you think you are so much attached to ISLAM, every relision says be good human then what is "HINDU", "ISLAM" or "KHRISTAN". Why do't you think to convert in "HINDU"?

    Think carefully and act ... best of luck ...

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    nothing to do with family,like most of the world's population people dont like islam,you should convert to hindu,its the coolest religion with 100% freedom to women without any mumbo jumbo restrictions. he wont leave his nice religion even if he is marrying Katrina kaif,just forget about it babes & fyi im an atheist.

  • 8 years ago

    your intention is to make him convert to islam , if you too love him and want to get married to him why cant you convert to hindu , so if you caant change urself how can you expect the other , u cant give up ur caste and expect the other to do so , when ur family kept hope on you the same hope is also kept to him by his family , if you really like him its nothing wrong to you to convert urself to hindu or u can get married to him without both converting and can lead a happy life by remaining with ur caste, to love caste is nothing only the heart matters

  • 8 years ago

    You need to get through in your mind that you CAN'T make anyone do anything they don't want to do. You just can't. I think you're both very manipulative to each other, him threatening suicide and you, trying to persuade him to convert to your religion. Neither of you are in your right minds for marriage at this point...

  • Lester
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    You will be going in to his family, am I right? You will be living with his family following their traditions. So you have to convert and not him. Go to an Arya Samaj Mandir and come back to the Original Religion leaving behind the false one you are practicing and everything will be alright.

  • 8 years ago

    If he is not ready to convert to islam then you get convert to hindu or else , search some muslim guy and leave him , this is the best solution.

    pkeode@yahoo.in

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    DATING ROMANCING even to a muslim guy before marriage is Haraam.

    No way you can ever allowed to marry a nonmuslim

    Repent sincerely to Allah swt.

    Horror stories of muslim girls ending up as forceful Prostitution in Red Light Areas all over india are plenty.

    Such bajrang dal/RSS rascals on the pretext of love lure muslim girls for sexual pleasures and after they enjoyed your body sell off to Goondas and politicians and then you will end up in a forced prostituion racket with IRON BARS.for rest of your life.

    May Allah swt save all of us from the evil of disobeying islam.

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