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Why can't I get a boyfriend?

For over a year now I've been single. There's plenty of guys that I would date if asked, but they never ask. I've talked to a couple guys the past year, but nothing ever comes from it. I'm decent looking and I get compliments from a lot of people. I'm not conceited and I'm pretty down to earth.

Yes, I know I'm still young. But even so at my age its not uncommon to have a boyfriend. It's frustrating on my part because I do want one but I don't know why guys don't talk to me. Any suggestions?

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  • 9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Maybe you are..just too beautiful!

    You know, sometimes, when we see a splendid woman, we freeze!

    So, if you are interested, you have to make the first move! it would be great if girls could forget the stereotype that a guy should always initiate. We are a human being, and as fragile as you are.

    Hope it helps

  • 9 years ago

    Heyy im a guy. So i think i can help! Um whatever you do resort to becoming a slu# to get attention. Talk to those guys that you would date. Pick one that you like to date the most, and flirt with hi!

    Give him complements

    Stare at him

    Talk to him a lot!

    Once he knows that you like him. ( as long as he does not have a gf) he will ask you out.

    Idk how old you are but im 16 and never had a gf.

    If you dont talk to guys theybwill never know amazing you are!

    Btw if that you in your profile pic, your pretty :-)

    Hope that did not sound weird. Lol

    Please help me out with my crush! I need help from a girl http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AswAm...

  • 9 years ago

    Be careful what you wish for. I know it sounds fun, but in reality most young love relationships end in a mess. So don't stress it, instead put the extra energy into yourself, being healthy, exercising. Life is a long damn time, being healthy brings so many benefits to your life, it's really a better life, so don't let time pass you by.

  • 9 years ago

    Remain confident, act confident, be yourself, ask THEM out. But don' say, "Hey do you wanna go out with me" or" Do you want to go out sometime." Have something specific in mind, like coffee or a movie. I've always noticed that seems to work better, don't know why but it does. Chin up, it'll happen!

  • ?
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Just ask the guy you find interesting to hang out with you, he'll get the hint. Don't just wait for guys to ask you out.

  • 9 years ago

    You have to be confident and try not to come off as desperate :) the time will come hon don't worrry :) answer mine??? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap_dQ...

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    just be patient you dont wanna rush into anything and end up with a *** hole

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    show them your boobs

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