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Me and my guy friend had sex. What now?
Me and my guy friend have been friends for about a while now, and both of us go to the same college. I've also developed a crush on him but he said he just wanted to be friends, so I kind of accepted it. Well, the semester's almost over and for him, he's been having it rough. Not only has he not been sleeping, but his dog died as well. He didn't want to talk for about a week, so I left him alone. Then yesterday, out of the blue, he texted me saying if he could come over. We were talking, and apologizing, then asked if I wanted to have sex with him. So we ended up having sex. I was wondering if he wants to be more than friends? Also, I actually enjoyed it alot, and want to do it again, but I'm afraid to say anything. Should I just keep quiet or give him hints I want to do it again?
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- lawomicronLv 48 years agoFavorite Answer
I would tell him clearly that you enjoyed it a lot and want to do it again.
He may want to do it again, too. OR he might just tell you that it was a one-off while he was feeling down and thank you very much, but he's sorry, and he really only wants to be friends (if so, he might be feeling a bit guilty about using you that way).
If he wants to do it again, which seems the most likely case, you need to establish before too long whether you are a couple or "friends with benefits". Otherwise you might get hurt.
- That Aussie GuyLv 68 years ago
Well if you enjoyed it then why not? If you do like him more than just a friend though be careful not to start assuming things between you just because you're having sex, it can cause quite a heartache otherwise. You're friends with benefits and nothing more at this stage. You can ask him if he sees more in you and whether things might have a chance to progress further but make sure that you understand that there's no strings attached right now.
All the best
- 8 years ago
you say you like him and want to do it again show right there you already answered your question whether not you should keep quiet or not my my opinion is to talk with him if you think you want to be more than just friends with benefits or if that is good enough for you no you go
- Anonymous8 years ago
Hmm... I'm not sure. I think I need more details about the sex first.