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BOYFRIEND???STD?? 10 PTS FAST ANSWERS?
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Me and boyfriend have been together for a couple of months. He's 16 and i'm 15 (Sophomores). Today he told me he had sex with 5 different girls in the past, half of them unprotected and i know a couple of them he just met that night and did it out in public like i know one of them was in a dressing room at a store. I felt a so disgusted to be dated a guy like that. But i mean it's his life. His sexual needs are alot, can't keep his hands off of me trying to get into my pants but he knows im not one of those easy girls. Sometimes it gets annoying because its like all he desires is sexual stuff always asking but i love him and he knows the limits. I don't think he can help it but he has a sexual problem i know that.
I am really strict on that stuff and i am a virgin obviously he is not.We never had sex but all we do is kiss and tries to finger me a couple of times like 4 or 5 times but he just rubs his finger by my (Pee) area and tries to go into my vagina but i don't let him because i don't want my cherry poped so he just puts the tip of his finger at the tip of my vagina hole. It has never fully gone it. I don't think hes has any cuts on his fingers just maybe those little rips at the stop of the finger nail skin (which happens to everybody) but there was no blood on it.He said his hands were clean but i don't know he just went down there so quick i couldn't stop him and im sure he didnt wash his hands. Could i get an STD from kissing and the whole finger thing?
He said he has no STD's and he would never "Put me in danger like that".He said he "got checked" But anybody could say that. I asked to see his results paper and he was like "RESULTS? OMG REALLY?" and started getting mad. I'm a clean person so that's just me. People say hes clean but how would they know?
I can't get tested because there is no way my parents would kill me even if i brought it up.
4 Answers
- ?Lv 48 years agoFavorite Answer
You CAN get an STD from kissing, but the chances are slim. Anytime there is an exchange of body fluids there is a chance of passing on an infection. It sounds like this boy isn't really respecting the boundaries you've set. You need to talk to him about this and he needs to know that you DO have a right to look at the result paper because you want to protect yourself from infection. He needs to respect your boundaries and there is nothing wrong with having boundaries either. It wasn't clear if you are alright with him fingering you or not, but if you aren't he needs to know that and you need to be able to enforce whatever boundaries you set. Good luck!
- 8 years ago
First I'd like to say you should take a minute to evaluate your relationship with this guy. I am not sure how your relationship is but he seems to be quite disrespectful towards your sexual beliefs and attitudes. I would recommend sitting down and talking with him and if this doesn't work than possible moving on the find someone else because I'm sure there are much nicer guys out there. Now when it comes to your worries about an STD, the likelihood is low as long as there are no open wounds on his hands when he his touching you. But it is very important to make sure that before doing sexual things with him, if he is going to finger you than make sure he washes his hands well, for a while with soap and water. The reason is lots of dirt and bacteria that we carry around on our hands can be introduced to your vagina during sexual activities. This gives the risk for certain conditions we call opportunistic infections.
Source(s): University health sciences student with a speciality in microbiology and disease. - Julie RLv 58 years ago
You don't know if somebody is "clean" unless they are tested for everything, particularly for herpes (which they don't test for unless you specifically ask). And then you would need to know that they had only been with you during that time period. Yes, make him show you the results.
My personal opinion is to find a dude who is more on your wavelength sexually (like will wait a while--you seem like you don't want to jump into that). You are not the first, and won't be the last person he has sex with. STDs are no fun and you don't want to get one at such a young age. It is a burden.
- camellonLv 45 years ago
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