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Me and boyfriend have been together for a couple of months. He's 16 and i'm 15 (Sophomores). Today he told me he had sex with 5 different girls in the past, half of them unprotected and i know a couple of them he just met that night and did it out in public like i know one of them was in a dressing room at a store. I felt a so disgusted to be dated a guy like that. But i mean it's his life. His sexual needs are alot, can't keep his hands off of me trying to get into my pants but he knows im not one of those easy girls. Sometimes it gets annoying because its like all he desires is sexual stuff always asking but i love him and he knows the limits. I don't think he can help it but he has a sexual problem i know that.

I am really strict on that stuff and i am a virgin obviously he is not.We never had sex but all we do is kiss and tries to finger me a couple of times like 4 or 5 times but he just rubs his finger by my (Pee) area and tries to go into my vagina but i don't let him because i don't want my cherry poped so he just puts the tip of his finger at the tip of my vagina hole. It has never fully gone it. I don't think hes has any cuts on his fingers just maybe those little rips at the stop of the finger nail skin (which happens to everybody) but there was no blood on it.He said his hands were clean but i don't know he just went down there so quick i couldn't stop him and im sure he didnt wash his hands. Could i get an STD from kissing and the whole finger thing?

He said he has no STD's and he would never "Put me in danger like that".He said he "got checked" But anybody could say that. I asked to see his results paper and he was like "RESULTS? OMG REALLY?" and started getting mad. I'm a clean person so that's just me. People say hes clean but how would they know?

I can't get tested because there is no way my parents would kill me even if i brought it up.

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  • 9 years ago
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    I can't really answer all the emotional stuff, except that he should treat you like you're the most important thing on planet Earth. What I can tell you is that he's lying about his sexual experiences. I don't know if you masturbate, but if you do, you'll know your pee hole isn't the 'bit to stimulate'.- it doesn't sound like he knows this either, otherwise he'd concentrate on your clitoris and get you aroused, therefore increasing his chances. He sounds quite sexually inexperienced and is putting on a show. That's why he's so eager to get into your pants. If he knew what he was doing you would feel much more comfortable with him. Get him to tell the truth or tell him he's ditched, otherwise he will develop unhealthy habits towards how he treats women.

  • 9 years ago

    Not unless you have cuts on your vagina and he has a cut in his finger. Regular infections are different from STDs. If his had sex with 5-6 random girls whom he just met(90% chance its not true), he is very likely to have STD.

    These girls obvious were insecure and had multiple partners previously to be willing to do it with a 15year old (or younger) whom they just met in a public dressing room. How desperate can they be...

    Also, you're only 16!! I'm all for sex before marriage but this is a guy that obviously can't keep a stable relationship. All he wants to do is to do you, and he obviously does not respect you at all or he would keep his hands off if you tell him to. He got mad? Sounds like he has something to hide. Stay away from this guy, test results or not. I wouldn't trust him as far as I can throw him.

  • 9 years ago

    Get a ride to a women's clinic. You can get tested cheap birth controll and free condoms. It's all confidential so they can't tell your parents. :) Remember your a princess and your boyfriend should treat you like one and respect your wishes.

  • 9 years ago

    tell him if he wants to have sex with u and have the best time of his life then get tested... and if he is clean the choice is urss but if he is dirty leave him right away

  • 9 years ago

    hello you are over worrying , really over worrying number one 16 is an ok age to loose your virginity also do you think every adult washes their hands before foreplay?

    no but we dont all worry

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