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Really weird guy in the university?Please any suggestions?
there is this really weird guy in my university and earlier we used to have classes together, and he is sort of an idiot and a problem maker, so when we had classes together he would keep on staring at me (i dont know if that was an appreciating stare or a mocking stare) and whenever i would walk past him he has to always comment on something so i have to respond. He would keep saying and calling my name everyday. In short he was pretty damn annoying to me.
Once he even mentioned something like 'everyone was goin after me' when he got to know that i wasnt going to the university party (still cant say if he was mocking me because he is an idiot i told you)
So he annoyed me so much that i just told him one day 'are you crazy' and he got really offended and started calling me a ***** and later told me he felt very bad, i just told him to not talk to me anymore, and he did not.
Later we didnt have any classes together for over 6 six months, now we are having some classes together, and i have been noticing he is always sitting behind me, moving his head rather blatantly to look at me if i am around, and today i noticed he was looking at my face rather intently when i was talking to someone else sitting close it him. Few days back he even asked me about some girl (wether she came today or not)
So now i dont think i am funny to look at or someone who can be easily mocked at, plus i dont see him acting like this with any other girl, he is an idiot but he doesnt act exactly like this with any other girl. People usually call me attractive. And seriously i am getting very conscious with this guy around me, he looks at me like i am some sort of an experiment, can you guys please advise as to what he really wants from me and how can i handle him? Nobody had ever acted like this with me.
other girls talk to him more, i dont even respond to him most times, always ignore like he doesnt exist.
6 Answers
- 8 years ago
Mmmm.... Well it does sound very uncomfortable being in your position of the situation. Perhaps you should try telling him that you do not fancy him and that he makes you feel very uncomfortable and sort of claustrophobic with all these irritating things he is doing as he is invading your personal space. Everyone needs their own personal space especially from people that they do not get on with but even from friends and family for an hour a day sometimes is needed for many. He sounds like he might be an asshole or that he just does not know about personal space and has some sort of crush on you. Maybe you can talk to your lecturer and ask if you can move to another class if there is one about the same subject.
- GirlieGirlLv 58 years ago
Sounds like a class case of what I call in my made up Latin terms as "Immaturus Guyus".....
He is super immature and likes you, but he isn't sure about how to approach asking you out. Instead, he says petty and stupid little comments to see whether he will get a rise out of you and because he obviously finds you attractive. I would just leave him be and ignore him. He may be really annoying and immature, but believe me, he is harmless....
- Anonymous8 years ago
I don't know if your trying to make this sound very obvious or not
but this is plain straight that he might have a crush on you
or may even like you.
- KateLv 58 years ago
Maybe you're the only girl that responds to his behaviour so he keeps on picking on you.
- Anonymous5 years ago
here are somethings that annoy me so just ask your self the following: do i smell do i always talk about myself do i have a annoying voice (baby voice) do i eat messy do i hit people for no reason etc