Any good books about ladylike/girly girls who ARENT the antagonists?

I am SO SICK of heroines of both good and bad books being, well, the heroines (likeable, capable, strong, intelligent, etc) while a female who dares who embrace her femininity is the villain, the queen bee, the nasty rival, etc. if it's OK to have heroines who like acting like guys or doing "boyish" activities, why can't we also have some who act like proper ladies or are into girly stuff?

also, I'm 20 so no kids books please (although classic kids lit like Anne of Green Gables can be ok, but PLEASE mostly YA/adult!) especially if it is Christian.

thanks very much.